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writes:ok so i'm an 18 year old girl and i have the hugest crush or whatever you'd call it thing for what used to be my 10th grade science teacher who's about 15 years older than me. I know it sounds so typical but it's not, i get so excited when i run into him and in fact the first sexual dream i had was about that teacher. And now since i'm 18 and no longer go to that school. Is it okay to approach him and atleast flirt?
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 although technically your not his student anymore, you were and in the teaching proffesion he has a duty to the public to show he is reliable and loyal, threfore think the chance are slim that he will consider having a relationship with you.
there's nothing wrong with speaking to him and asking him but be prepared for a answer you don't like.
good luck
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reader, cupidhelper +, writes (25 September 2007):
if he's not married, do it in a year. You've been obsessed and haven't given other men a shot.
also, sound like you just graduated, if he does go for it (but doubt he will) NO ONE will believe that he didn't initiate while you were still a student-- he'll get fired, possibly arrested in some states.
If you decide in a year you still want him and he says yes, write a letter that state you never had relations while being a student, you intiated it, and it was long after you graduated. goto bank, get it Notorised and give the Principle a copy.
It'll keep you honest if you break up. (not judging, we all do stuff we wish we could take back-- this one is too much temptation if you get hurt)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 September 2007):
 As long as he isn't married or in a relationship go for it but don't be surprised to find out he isn't the slightest bit interested.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (24 September 2007):
 I guess since you're no longer a student at the school, and you're of legal age - it SEEMS that all legal aspects are out of the way. Now you just need to figure out if he feels the same things for you.
Hope this helps.
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reader, jtaunton5410 +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Yeah, there should be no problem if you flirt with him or tell him how you feel but, he may think that it is kinda weird since you are so much younger than him and you used to be his student. I dont think that there is any harm is talking to him about the way you feel, it just matters what the outcome is. Good Luck.
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