I failed..What do I do now? Can I make things better?
Q. I have made unforgivable choices this year and now am paying the price; I want to put things right but have I done too much? Below are the details to the best of my recollection, I suspect that I have not covered everything or all the minute d...
A. 17 October 2007: After all this all you want to know is how you could have done this to your wife? Sheesh. You did it because you have not integrity or honor. Your excuses hold no water. Leave your wife alone, support your kids, and for Heaven's sake try to behave ... (read in full...)
How can I accept that one of these days the only girl I've ever loved will find herself another sweetheart? Especially whenever I believe nobody will love her as much I do.
Q. My ex really wants us to have a friendship after we finished 3 1/2 months ago after she became tired of the long distance aspect of our relationship. We were together for 2 years. I accept that I'm probably thinking irationally when I believe that ...
A. 17 October 2007: Andy what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. Stop the contact with her and give it time.... (read in full...)
It looked like they took a photo of us . . . . . .
Q. i was with my freinds and we were just talking bye the gate at school (there is a football pitch right bye our school) there were two men on a buggy cart (i didnt realy know what it was but they suddenly stoped (directly in facing us)and we saw a ...
A. 16 October 2007: Nothing to worry about. A photo of a bunch of kids talking by a gate won't be a problem I'm sure.... (read in full...)
My husband is selfish and uncaring. I'm not happy in my marriage. What do I do?
Q. I have been married for 4 years and don't know where to start. i'm 35 yrs old and married to a pilot who is gone a lot. I have a son from a previous marriage and my husband resents my son just because we have to pay for tuition and things that he ...
A. 16 October 2007: Sounds like you need to separate and file for divorce. Get a good lawyer because your husband doesn't appear to have much sense of responsibility so make sure you have the bases cover for your kids' sakes.... (read in full...)
When I was left alone with my daugyhter's best friend, we touched each other intimately; my daughter knows I'm a lesbian. Help?
Q. i am a woman and im alesbian my daughter knows about this and doesnt mind but recently whenever her best friend comes over my vagina starts throbbing in a good way and i think i luv her, when i was left in a room with her i touched her breasts and ...
A. 16 October 2007: I think you need to get a grip. I hope the friend's parents find out and force you into getting help one way or another. Jeese louise woman, it's your daughter's girlfriend...whatever are you thinking?... (read in full...)
We used to be all over each other, now he won't even kiss me when he goes somewhere! What's wrong w/ him?
Q. hiya guys!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxx I have been with my boyfriend for about 3-5 weeks and we used to be so close and everthing. We went to the cinemas together and hanley and everwhere together and we used to be all over each other all the time!!!!...
A. 16 October 2007: He's drifted away because he's lost interest in your relationship. 10 - 12 year olds often have short attention spans and that is exactly why you don't want to have committed relatiosnhips at your age. There will plenty of time to "be all over" ... (read in full...)
How can I accept that one of these days the only girl I've ever loved will find herself another sweetheart? Especially whenever I believe nobody will love her as much I do.
Q. My ex really wants us to have a friendship after we finished 3 1/2 months ago after she became tired of the long distance aspect of our relationship. We were together for 2 years. I accept that I'm probably thinking irationally when I believe that ...
A. 16 October 2007: Hi Andy. Still having problems adjusting to the breakup I see. Bless your heart, you just can't move on with all this. I really think that you shouldn't even have any conversations with her until you do. It just keeps this wound fresh.... (read in full...)
After dating me for 4 months he says he is married! What should I do with him?
Q. My boyfriend just told me he is married after dating me for 4 months he said he didn't tell me because he did not want to lose me. He feels that if I knew I would leave him. What should I do with him. Keep him or throw him to the curb??...
A. 11 October 2007: Throw him to the curb. You now know his true character.... (read in full...)
He's married with kids - what should I do?
Q. hi..ive got a man who is married with kids.. but i love him so much. im much jealous everytime he is with his family.. i feel he doesnt love me anymore.. dearcupid i really love this guy. what should i do... this situation is really hurting me....
A. 11 October 2007: Of course it's hurting you now, but count on the pain to only get worse. You are wasting your life. Tell the user to take a hike. You have no future in this relationship. End it, learn from it, and vow to never again get involved with a married man.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when my husband told me another women respected and knows that he was married?
Q. I wanted to know what does it mean when my husband told me that another woman respected and knows that he was married? Plese help me i've been thinking about it but unsure. ummm... during that time my husband was always over at the nei...
A. 11 October 2007: I think this smells pretty damn fishy. Washing and waxing her car? Pleeeeeease! I'd make sure I went with him when he "visits" the neighbors if I were you. I think then you'll understand plenty.... (read in full...)
I still love him, but now I think he hates me. What can I do?
Q. Met a man 1yr10mths ago,after 3mths he told me he was married.I asked did he want to finish me,he said no.We stayed together and I grew to love him so much.In may his wife and kids came here on holiday and stayed until october.We were still ...
A. 11 October 2007: Tough luck. You reap what you sow. Learn from this and move on.... (read in full...)
What makes a person worth loving?
Q. what makes a person worth loving?...
A. 11 October 2007: This question has either a gazillion answers or no answer at all.... (read in full...)
Want to be friends with my ex and have my ex husband as a friend with benefits. Am I asking too much?
Q. Hi Would be interested in others opinions on this.. I recently met up with my ex husband, we split 16 yrs ago. We have been having some fun for a few weeks now, and slept together twice. Our kids get on well together. He only split from their mum a...
A. 11 October 2007: Sounds pretty messy to me already. I'd take a step back from all of this and do some hard thinking if I were you. Your world is rolling along but it just seems too convoluted. Must be very confusing to the children involved.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and fancy a boy who is 11 ~ Is this wrong?
Q. I am a 15 year old girl and fancy a boy in who is 11. Would it be wrong if we went out? ...
A. 4 October 2007: Yes.... (read in full...)
I want to divorce my wife and marry her sister
Q. i had a chance to be with and tell my wife's sister that i am in love with her, but didn't. know i feel depressed and feel i've missed out on opportunity to be with someone that i have fallen in love with and love with all my heart. My wife and i ...
A. 4 October 2007: You keep posting this and you keep getting the same responses from the aunts. What exactly do you expect to hear? You are not going to get people to tell you to go ahead and bonk your sister in law (she probably isn't interested in the slightest ... (read in full...)
I love him, but he his taken.
Q. I'm experiencing a unrequited love, the truth is i'm MAD about him, i duno if he knows this as i've never actually told him but I try and make it obvious through body language...and the thing is, he's living with someone [don't think they're ...
A. 4 October 2007: Are you talking about your teacher? This sounds like the girl who keeps posting about her school girl crush. Is this you?... (read in full...)
I shouldn't have to tell my partner to act like a partner! His behavior is confusing and really hurts me! Help!
Q. hi me again sorry to be so annoying,i wrote about my partner of a year and a half and how his family hates me and abuses me. Now he doesn't want to sort out any situation with me. My last question had the heading "can someone help". Well, I know I s...
A. 3 October 2007: Why are you staying in this relationship? It sure sounds like it is making you more miserable than happy. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings. You shouldn't have to tell him his responsibilities all the time. I think you should distance ... (read in full...)
Hand holding..why won't he?
Q. my boyfriend won't hold my hand and I don't know if he wants to or not? how do you tell?...
A. 3 October 2007: He'll hold your hand when he feels like it. At his age he probably has other things on his mind, like baseball and football, things young boys like. Does he even know he's supposed to be your boyfriend? ... (read in full...)
Why shouldn't I have a baby?
Q. i crave for a baby. i am 17 and quite mature for my age. i know 10 girls one of which is my best friend, all my age who have had babys last year after leaving school. i went to college. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 3years in november ...
A. 3 October 2007: I think it's a terrible shame that you have no dreams or aspirations in your life other than conceiving. What do you plan to offer your child? A parent with a good education and life experiences can offer a child so much more.... (read in full...)
I've been sending anonymous love/sex mails to my wife's sister
Q. I am 40 and married. I am seriously in love with my sister in law who is 22 unmarried. I have been sending anonymous love emails to her and finally got a positive reply. Should I reveal my real identity and come out in front of her as myself.....I ...
A. 3 October 2007: You are behaving despicably. If you don't stop this nonsense you are going to end up a very, very lonely man.... (read in full...)
How can tell if he likes me as more than a student?
Q. Alright so this might be sort of long, but please bear with me. I have not had very much experience with men. I am 21 years old and the problem is that I have developed feelings for a man who is 32. He is a professor at the college I attend, but ...
A. 2 October 2007: I work at a university and we just fired a professor for getting involved romantically with a student. Do him a favor and back away.... (read in full...)
Is it love or lust?
Q. Can really great sex cause men to fall in love? And if a man says he doesn't love you, why does my bf - who says he doesn't love me - get really hard when I tell him that I love him?...
A. 2 October 2007: Great sex is purely a physical collision of bodies whereas true love it the collision of two souls, two totally different things and can be mutually inclusive or mutually exclusive. The reason he gets hard when you tell him you love him is because ... (read in full...)
I'm suffering from BOREDOM! Any advice?
Q. Not really a relationship question, but more of a problem exacerbated by breaking up. I'm so bored! HELP ME! It's monday. I don't have college. It's raining. I don't have the car. My old friends who lived nearby have gone to univeristy. All ...
A. 1 October 2007: You could write about lost love, you've got some experience along those lines. Maybe give it a happy ending and hope for the vibe to carry over into real life, eh?... (read in full...)
He said he didnt want to keep cheating on me but nothing seems to be changing. Was everything he said a load of rubbish?
Q. My boyfriend has cheated many many times. Finally he tells me cause of an trust issue from his past girlfriend who cheated he never did trust me. So he always had a girl on the side. Now he says he doesn't want that. I have stayed by his side cause ...
A. 1 October 2007: Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Dump his sorry ass, no future here.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and in love with 2 women. What do I do?
Q. Im 14. I love my gf but my best mate fancies her and i fancy his gf but my gf would be heartbroken if i left her. I love 2 women, what do i do....
A. 1 October 2007: Dump them both and go play some football. You don't need to be tied down to a "woman" at this stage in your life. Go have some fun.... (read in full...)
14, My boyfriend wants me to do things to him... I'm not sure how to!
Q. im 14 and i have a boyfriend and he wants me to toss him off and give him head, im ready 4 it, but im not sure what to do. pleaaaaasssee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 1 October 2007: I'll leave it someone else to give sex tips to babies.... (read in full...)
I'm suffering from BOREDOM! Any advice?
Q. Not really a relationship question, but more of a problem exacerbated by breaking up. I'm so bored! HELP ME! It's monday. I don't have college. It's raining. I don't have the car. My old friends who lived nearby have gone to univeristy. All ...
A. 1 October 2007: Simmer down there Andy old pal. That Aunt probably is not aware of your romantic history as are the rest of us. You know with your writing skills maybe you should start writing short stories or maybe a novel. I'd read it ;)... (read in full...)
He doesn't make me feel sexy! What can I do?
Q. I am happily married to my soul mate and the love of my life. he gives me everything i need and want. But he doesn't make me feel sexy. He always wants to have sex and gives me many of compliments. we talk about everything and i mean everything. we ...
A. 1 October 2007: I concur, just knock off this nonsense immediately. end of story.... (read in full...)
After 30 years he says he no longer loves me!
Q. What do you do when after 30 years of being married he says he no longer loves me but I still love him? ...
A. 1 October 2007: I think we could use a little more info here. Did all this just come out of the blue? Was your relationship healthy up to this point? A few more details will net you better advice from the aunts.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my aunt-in-law. How can I get this to happen?
Q. I fancy my aunt-in-law and i want sex with her realy badly how could i get her to have sex with me...
A. 1 October 2007: You can't GET her to have sex with you so I suggest you just forget it.... (read in full...)
Should I just walk away from this friend from 20 yrs ago as he is married with kids?
Q. I recently met my best friend from high school after 20 years. I was his first love and he was really in love with me but I never knew about it. He is currently married with kids but says he is not happy in his marriage. Tables have turned around ...
A. 1 October 2007: He isn't in love with you so why on earth are you wasting any time on him? He is just giving you that same old tired line that married cads give in order to have some cake. Don't buy the lie, dear. Your "genuine love" is going to bring you nothing ... (read in full...)
He keeps asking about threesomes. I've had them and they're not a good idea at all! Should I be worried?
Q. Okay i have been with my boyfriend for four years. And yes our relationship is somewhat good. But a few days ago all my bf did was ask about a threesome. I have had them in the past and they are not the greatest idea at all. he kept on begging me ...
A. 1 October 2007: I agree with you, threesomes are not a good idea especially if one person isn't totally gungho about it. Tell him No and the the subject is closed, if he doesn't like it then show him the door. Sounds like he isn't all that committed to your ... (read in full...)
Why did this guy stop calling me?
Q. well there is this male and we have been dating for about 12 days now and i really like him we both like the same ice cream and music. he was real sweet and we would have great convo and he was so wise and mature for a 23 yr old. I am still a virgin ...
A. 1 October 2007: Well you've only wasted 12 days out of your life on the jerk so be grateful for that.... (read in full...)
Is love at first sight true? Ready to sacrifice everything to be together, though I'm married and know this person for a month.
Q. I am a 47 year old male with a professional job and have been married for 16 years. About a month ago I met a 39 year old female hispanic woman who speaks some english and we can hold conversations very well at a conference. She is also married for ...
A. 30 September 2007: The hurt you don't want your wife to have is just escalating expotentially at this point. You need to get a grip buddy. Separate from your wife Immediately. The selfishness involved in this is just purely overwhelming. Do right by your wife first ... (read in full...)
I am kind of seeing my married, older boss and want to take it further, sexually
Q. My boss at work flirts with me a lot and I know he likes me and I like him. But hes married with a kid. He is not married to the mother of his daughter tho, but he is married. We have made out and fooled around a little. I know that if we went any ...
A. 27 September 2007: Don't bet on not getting caught. Think about his wife and child. Why would you want to hurt them? What happens if you do get attached to him, there's nothing but heartache for you. The whole idea is smarmy. Stop the nonsense and find somebody single ... (read in full...)
Is love at first sight true? Ready to sacrifice everything to be together, though I'm married and know this person for a month.
Q. I am a 47 year old male with a professional job and have been married for 16 years. About a month ago I met a 39 year old female hispanic woman who speaks some english and we can hold conversations very well at a conference. She is also married for ...
A. 26 September 2007: I believe that "love at first sight" is really more "lust at first sight". True love is much more involved and comes after two people really get to know each other. You need to think long and hard before you destroy your marriages and crush your ... (read in full...)
I have period problems - can anyone give me some advice?
Q. hi everyone! i didnt have my period for about 2 months, so when it came, i had them for more than 2 weeks. that's "really" annoying, because it takes a long time before it ends and when i go to school it gets more annoying! arhgh! help! ps: do ...
A. 25 September 2007: Putting you on the pill will be exactly what your doctor will recommend, I don't think your dad will have a problem with a doctor's recommendation will he? Make an appointment with your doctor. Your dad wouldn't want you to suffer through menstrual ... (read in full...)
How can I be happy when I'm torturing myself and the one I love?
Q. Her threesome in the past problem nr.#982512. How to cope with such a great loss?? After all that time I've spent on helping myself getting over something I never really intended to hear it's all over now. You see we were a dreamy couple. I...
A. 25 September 2007: Not sure just what you are asking...I guess my best advice is for you to try and find someone with little or no sexual history, who is perfectly smart, perfectly beautiful, cooks perfectly, walks dogs perfectly, etc...Good luck with that.... (read in full...)
Does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?
Q. does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?. I have ginger hair and iv never had a gf. i know im not as confindent with girls as some of my friends are. ...
A. 25 September 2007: You've asked and asked this question and you get the same responses each time. You need to get over your hair color, Buddy. Go do some volunteer work and see some people who really have problems to worry about.... (read in full...)
Is there any way to get our relationship back on the map?
Q. I think my boyfriend broke up with me last night and cried until 4:00 a.m., and then had to get up at 6:30 for work. I wish I could say our conversation was a bad dream. We had a misunderstanding over the telephone and he needed some spac...
A. 25 September 2007: Just give him the space he needs. Call him in a couple days and let him know that you love him but don't demand anything from him. Stay busy, do some stuff just for your self (pedicure, new hair style, etc...), go out with your friends. If he's a ... (read in full...)
I think my husband is involved with his sister!
Q. I Think my husband is involved with his sister!! She was living with us and caused a lot of arguments between us such as butting in on our finances and everything. my baby son started callin her mama she would get happy! They would always be ...
A. 25 September 2007: Get that divorce and make sure you get every penny you can from the nutcase. Consider your life not as ruined but just beginning. That situation was sick and wrong, good riddance to bad rubbish. Good luck Honey, you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
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