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I'm 14, am I ready for sex?
Q. I am a 14 year old girl...i am from india...the question i want to ask is that am i ready for sex?...i know this guy since 8 months..we are pretty much good friends...we share everything with eachother..no secrets...he wants to have sex with me...so ...
A. 28 November 2012: Okay so your asking if your ready for sex. you say you THINK you are but thats the thing you think. You dont know. Your very young and your hormones are raging. You say you guys are good friends but it may ruin your friend ship totally. You just ... (read in full...)
He gets jealous about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. I want to break up with him! And there's a bonus question too....
Q. Well where do I begin? Lets see here. My bf and I have been dating for the past 5 months (secretly until about a week ago bcuz I wasnt allowed to date) Well now weve been fighting a lot about the past 2 months and I dont know if I can stand it much ...
A. 27 November 2012: @Karlos5021
Hes the same age as me (only three months older)
I was saying him and his family were gonna move there but his mom decided not to because of me and his 14 year old brothers little sister..
And this still doesnt ask me how do I end ... (read in full...)
Is he just being nice because I am his friend's sister?
Q. My friend (lets call her bribri) told my brothers friend (lets call him Char) that i like him....and i do, but i didnt want him to know......I dont know him very well....my brother and i go to different skools. When he found out he started to tickl...
A. 6 November 2012: Hey thanks, turns out the guy liked me. after 8 months of crushing on him we dated for 6 more then he dumped me... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 21 October 2011: Okay so I gave the ring back a few weeks ago...But now I am dating the other guy....Is that the right choice?... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 6 October 2011: @Honeypie i know it's rare, but i do really LOVE him...it's just so many people are telling me not to fall for it, it's all just a trick, and i don't know what to do... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 6 October 2011: @eyeswideopen
I am 15 not 14... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 6 October 2011: @eyeswideopen I AM 15 NOT 14........ (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: IM sick of it....I cant stop crying....Im staying single....thanx for the help... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: No i didnt.....I still dont know who to pick....Ducky or Arby..... But I've been talking to Dorky and Im liking him again....I feel...like....I think the word is conflicted... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 23 September 2011: Well Ducky never caused me drama......I just had drama at home..... And with Arby this is his last year at School and I still got 2 more years, so I'll never get to see him :'(, plus I dont wanna ruin a perfectly good relationship.....And Dorky Im ... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 22 September 2011: @eyeswide open....to me thts cheating and im not a cheater... (read in full...)
We kissed and now my mouth is bruised and hurts. Is that normal?
Q. I'll be quick. I went to my BF's house yesterday, we Frenched kissed(I've nvr done it before) and now part of my lip is purple and my tongue hurts. Is that normal?...
A. 13 June 2011: Thank you all who answered :)
XOXOXOXO... (read in full...)
We kissed and now my mouth is bruised and hurts. Is that normal?
Q. I'll be quick. I went to my BF's house yesterday, we Frenched kissed(I've nvr done it before) and now part of my lip is purple and my tongue hurts. Is that normal?...
A. 13 June 2011: U cant really see the bruise unless u get really close, but its more that the bottom of my tongue hurts, Is that normal?... (read in full...)
Trouble with my boyfriend and thinking about breaking up......
Q. Dearcupid, I am at the most confusing stage. I love my boyfriend a lot. We met online. He is 26 and I'm 16. I have asked this question before,please check. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-torn-between-my-ex-and-my-friend.html He disappeared...
A. 3 June 2011: I'm sorry....it sounds like he is just playing you.
I Know how you feel, you think you rly love him even though u know all the stuff he is doing to you. Ive been in the same situation, but things only get worse.
You have either got to tell him u kn... (read in full...)
How can I stop this "urge"?
Q. This is a really weird thing to ask and talk about to me but how do you stop an "urge" to want to have sex. I went to my BF's house the other day and he said that he wanted to do something to make me happy and kept saying a bunch of other thi...
A. 3 June 2011: So basically I can't stop them, the most I can do is try to ignore them?... (read in full...)
How can I stop this "urge"?
Q. This is a really weird thing to ask and talk about to me but how do you stop an "urge" to want to have sex. I went to my BF's house the other day and he said that he wanted to do something to make me happy and kept saying a bunch of other thi...
A. 2 June 2011: Well....I am about to turn 15 next month and he turned 16 2 months ago.
weve been together a little under a month....... (read in full...)
How can I stop this "urge"?
Q. This is a really weird thing to ask and talk about to me but how do you stop an "urge" to want to have sex. I went to my BF's house the other day and he said that he wanted to do something to make me happy and kept saying a bunch of other thi...
A. 1 June 2011: @ So_Very_Confused
why should it matter our ages, and how long we've been together?
I just wanna know how I can stop it.... (read in full...)
I think my best friend is mad that I'm dating her ex! What should I do?
Q. My friend and I have known each other since we were like 7 or 8. I started to really like one of her ex-boyfriends. I asked her how mad she would be, on a scale from 1 to 10, if I liked him. She said about a 2, and told me she wouldn’t care if I ...
A. 18 May 2011: I've tried talking to her but she just walks away, I've tried calling her and she ignores me, I've tried emailing her and she wont reply! How can I talk to her if she wants nothing to do with me?... (read in full...)
Torn between the two
Q. What do i say to them? So theres this guy. lets say 'David' who i liked and he liked me, we never really 'went out' but we spoke a lot and clearly both liked eachother. (we held hands a few times) After time however David gave me the impression h...
A. 27 April 2011: Well first of all think who do you actually like more?
If its Jamie then explain to David that you like someone else.
If its David then explain to Jamie that you like someone else and you are sorry.
It all depends on what your heart tells you.
... (read in full...)
Why does he treat me like this if we are just friends with benefits?
Q. **I realize it is long, but please... just read it I have an FwB, but we act like we are bf/gf (just that there are no strings). He knows I like him a little, and he said he is starting to like me (not sure if that has changed or not, i ...
A. 26 April 2011: to me it sounds like your nothing like FwB. to me it sounds like your bf and gf you guys just haven't labeled it.... Sort of like an open relationship which isnt very good.
I've nevver known any of my fwb to get as intense as you 2.
so talk to ... (read in full...)
What did this message mean?
Q. My new Bf and I started dating a few days ago and then I got this message from him over facebook: (slightly edited so names aren't shown) "hey babe, you know the same day that you asked me out that my best friend did the same but after we started...
A. 25 April 2011: i dont understand the seccond part of the msg......was he scared of kissing me bc my ex bf was behind us?... (read in full...)
How do you french kiss?
Q. I av no idea how 2 french kiss, nd i'm scared i'll bite my bf tongue if i do....can u give me some advice? Its urgently needed....
A. 25 April 2011: i make no promises but thanks :)... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to like another guy while you have a bf?
Q. My bf and I started dating a few days ago.....I've dated him 2 other times this school year, and he knows I like someone else too, but is that wrong?...
A. 21 April 2011: Yes, I am back....and I know everything I post things that are confusing, but thats because I have a confusing life and sometimes I just don't know what to do with it!.....But if your willing to post:
"You're Back?" on one of my questions, then plea... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex, despite my friend's opinions?
Q. Hi, so I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and we were really in love but there were just reasons that it couldn't continue. I have been hanging out with my other ex a lot lately, almost every day. He has told me that he really likes me again. I ...
A. 21 April 2011: you shouldnt always listen to what your friends say....all that matters is that youre happy...are u happy when ur with this guy if so then go for it. :)... (read in full...)
What did this message mean?
Q. My new Bf and I started dating a few days ago and then I got this message from him over facebook: (slightly edited so names aren't shown) "hey babe, you know the same day that you asked me out that my best friend did the same but after we started...
A. 21 April 2011: the (my ex bf)....thats me we wording a little...just saying it was my ex bf standing behind us.... (read in full...)
My ex likes me quiet, but bugs me until I scream. How can I get his attention more? I still like him!
Q. The other day i was messing with one of my ex's because i still like him. Well he asked me if i still like him and i was afraid what he would say if i say yes so i told him i dont know, and he kept bugging me about it so i told him no. But now i am ...
A. 19 April 2011: I know i know it sounds weird but what im basically saying is he knows how to bug me, and he pokes me which makes me scream. And then he told me he likes me likes me when im quiet and asked if i still like him... (read in full...)
Is there a way to ask her out when I'm so shy?
Q. I'm too shy to ask a girl on a date, I'm not really scared of her saying no I'm just too shy to ask her but I really want to be with her. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to be able to pluck up the courage to ask her and I don't really want to ...
A. 18 April 2011: If u rly Like her and dont have the courage have another person ask her for u or just write her a note and give it to her....u dont have to do it exactly face to face... (read in full...)
B/f thought I was going to dump him so he broke up with me!
Q. My bf now ex and i broke up a few days ago.....I am still madly in love with him! he says he is still in love with me and I am the best thing that ever happened to him. I am asked why he broke up with me in the first place and he said it was b/c ...
A. 23 March 2011: I got a curfew.....stupid 8 o clock........ and i hate the piano and ballet... (read in full...)
B/f thought I was going to dump him so he broke up with me!
Q. My bf now ex and i broke up a few days ago.....I am still madly in love with him! he says he is still in love with me and I am the best thing that ever happened to him. I am asked why he broke up with me in the first place and he said it was b/c ...
A. 22 March 2011: We got bak together and to yazanco, no we didnt have sex.......I AM ONLY 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm taller. Friends are interferring. What can I do to ease his insecurities?
Q. Hey let's make this short and sweeeet ok, so.. I reallllllly like this guy I LOVE this guy. He's my friends brother. And I'm a bit tall for my age because guys still haven't hit that growth spurt that makes them huge lol. So I'm about hmm 4 inch...
A. 22 March 2011: My friend C is the same way and her bf S doesn't mind it at all......If he truely loves u he shouldn't care.......if u think this is ttrue love dont worry everything will work out for the best :)... (read in full...)
I think he's going to dump me and I don't know how to stop it
Q. This is prior to one of my questions some of you helped me on: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/apparently-my-boyfriend-has-changed-his-relationship-status.html But i don't know what I can do anymore....I talked to him about he just says b/c of a...
A. 20 March 2011: thnx for trying to help but he dumped me and nothing can or will mend my broken heart. /3... (read in full...)
Are these good baby names?
Q. I am hoping to have a boy. If I do, his name will be Kylan Jake. But if I have a girl, her name will be Joselyn Nicole. Do these names sound good? Please help!...
A. 18 March 2011: First of all why are you thinking about baby names you are WAY too young to be having kids.
secondly i like the names they are really CUTE!!!... (read in full...)
Where do we go from here? Finally she might like me but I don't know what to do now!
Q. I am a 15 yr. old freshman in highschool and I need some advice on what to do about what is quite possibly the best thing that's (almost) ever happened to me thus far in my life. Her name is (girl) and I'm absolutely gaga about her. We've be...
A. 17 March 2011: Well first of all.YAY!!!!!! You tolde her how u feel and she wanted to get to know u better...that is always a good sign! :)
2nd if she is telling people it may mean she likes u back and she is excited.
and 3rdly if u honestly and truely like thi... (read in full...)
Apparently my boyfriend has changed his relationship status to single!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months. Him and I have had our fights but have always over come them. Now as i came to school today I am told by several of my friends that he changed his relationship status to single. I am freaking...
A. 17 March 2011: You all must think I am crazy for going here first....I'm just easily paranoid and very anti social around my friends and bf...i try to hide my true emotions......
After i have read some of these comments I think I SHOULD talk to him about it..... (read in full...)
She broke her promise not to tell him!
Q. I tell my friend CR all my secrets she is like my sista. I was texting her the other day I was thinking about breaking up with my BF because of all the drama in my life right now. She told me she wasn't gonna tell him either. When I got to school ...
A. 15 March 2011: Thank you for the help.
I talked to him and now things are back to normal. He loves me and I love him. :)... (read in full...)
I dumped her 8 times and now I'm fuming that she has found new love?? Any thoughts??
Q. Last year I casually dated a girl on an off for 10 months. She fell head over heals in love with me and worshiped the ground that I walked on. LSS I took her kindness for a weakness and abused the hell out of her and dumped her for the 8th time in ...
A. 15 March 2011: I may have misunderstood but by what i read it sounds like you did this to yourself.
If you abused her and was cruel to her and then told her to move on thats what she did. You pushed her away and she went away. You hurt her maybe she wants to get ... (read in full...)
I get scared when boyfriend wants to kiss
Q. i always gets scared anytime my boyfriend wants to kiss or have sex with me what do i do please help me he wants to break up with me....
A. 11 March 2011: You shouldn't have these feelings. You are young, have a full life ahead of you, if he is pressuring you to do something you dont like dont give in, kick that boy to the curb.
I know you say that you love him, but if its true love do you really thin... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me, now what?
Q. My boyfriend is telling me he has practically cheated on me, and he told me the reason he was telling me because he didn't want me to get upset by hearing it from someone else but i wish he had never told me. When i see him i just can't get mad, so ...
A. 7 March 2011: 1. I know what the legal age is. He said he wants to get me a promise ring but doesn't have the money right now.
2. I'm just confused so i ask a lot of questions I get paranoid a lot.
And it has been two months since yesterday (3/6/11)... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me, now what?
Q. My boyfriend is telling me he has practically cheated on me, and he told me the reason he was telling me because he didn't want me to get upset by hearing it from someone else but i wish he had never told me. When i see him i just can't get mad, so ...
A. 3 March 2011: The thing is I really do Love this guy with all of my heart, he has even asked me to marry him in a few years, because of our age differences, I told him I would like that!!!!!! He has been the sweetest guy I have ever dated. and then he told me ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my secrets?
Q. My BF and I have been dating for 7 weeks today(2/24/11). And he has decided to tell me all the secrets he has been keeping from me......some of them I'm not very comfortable with but I still love him! Now that he has told me his secrets, I feel a l...
A. 24 February 2011: No...its secrets like how he is very emotional...and what he has done in the past.
I have secrets like i use to cut myslelf... (read in full...)
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