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... Send *aglish a private message | | | *aglish's profile:well big-ups to all of you guyz out there.. its really great that i have got this chance to join you. Its been always my pleasure to help people coz though iam still in my early 20's, i have been thru alot.. i hate to deliberate coz many wont believe it. However in brief, i have done some psychology specifically in the field of relationship-building as the main theme of sociolization. But books aren't all that i have to show but even the numerous complications that have indirectly and directly come my way.. Right now i want to give thanx to God that i finally have a stable relationship with a one Doreen T N back here in Kampala,Uganda. Both of us are having the time of our lives because of the experiences each of us has been thru.Its on this background therefore that i want to help my numerous friends and SPECIFICALLY SISTERS and brothers who might have any gliches in their love affairs in all aspects of the field |
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Who should be head of household and lay down the rules?
Q. I've been with my wife for 10 years. She has never had a job. I have always paid most of the bills with very few exceptions. she collect ssi and public assistance. She pays what she wants on the bills. Recently it has been $80.00 a month for the ...
A. 23 July 2009: I think it should be the man but as a husband not some sort of 'LORD'. It is a scary ordeal, what you might be going thru. On second thought though, the way you look at your contributions is all thats driving you mad. You sound like you were for... (read in full...)
My husband has been going out behind my back with his ex wife and son to the beach and dinner!
Q. I've been with this man for ten years we got married three years ago he has a son with his ex wife in the first seven years of our relationship I hardly had to deal with her because she would not let him see his child so he would not talk to her ...
A. 23 July 2009: Iyou have a child with him then am afraid breaking up with him aint one of the options. Your child needs the two of you together. The only way to solve this is to let him you know about his infidelity coz its not fair to have you compete with an ex. ... (read in full...)
Can I get HIV's if he is positive?
Q. i have recently been with a guy who is very promiscuous, we didn't completly have an intercourse because i was drunk and dry so he just got his tip in for a few milimiters and then took it away before we came, what i am worried about is that he ...
A. 23 July 2009: Just dont leave anything to chance honey. Go for a medical test before it too late.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship, but I'm scared of breaking up and being lonely
Q. I'm really confused!! I'm 22 and currently with my boyfriend of two years. I dont know if he is the one, I dont even know if I really wanna be in this relationship anymore, but at the same time in not sure about breaking up either. I think im just ...
A. 23 July 2009: I would willingly exchange crosses with you. But the good news is you are not in a rush to do anything. Just like a Mirinda, a relationship cant be rushed in either direction. I would advise you not to break-up with him in words but you could ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me? Girls never seem attracted to me!
Q. hi. is there anything wrong with me? I can't never seem to attract any girls. everywhere I go its girls and whenever I try to approach them it seems like they don't want me near them. I know there's gonna be plenty girls down the road but it seems ...
A. 23 July 2009: Kidece, its too early to worry about that. Thats basically a man's world. The girls may seem like they are falling for evrybody else but you. This can only last for a short time(which could be years). At the end of the day, every woman needs a man ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being selfish with my boyfriend?
Q. MOD NOTE: Please resubmit your question using initial capitals only and NOT all capital letters (which is not allowed.) ************************* okay my question is i have a boyfriend and we knew each other for 5months and we started dating 7/...
A. 20 July 2009: If u dont mind, your question is very wide. How selfish?... (read in full...)
I am a tomboy and I have not had a boyfriend ever, I do wear make-up, do boys care if you are a tomboy?
Q. ummmm ok this is a weird question but like im a big tomboy most of my friends are guys and i luv tossing the football and wrestling and stuff like that but i still wear makeup and crap......do guys like that or care about that cuz i havnt hade an ...
A. 20 July 2009: Congratulations Tori, only those who know who they are get what they want. Trust me you will be amazed to realize that there are many guyz who dont care whether you are atomboy or not. As long as you keep looking good and femininne, a guy who loves ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and attracted to my friend's 58 year old aunt, how do I let her know of y sexual feelings?
Q. hi I'm a 14 year old virgin male. I have feelings for my friend's aunt(they live with their aunt). I go across the street to their house and play with them often. their aunt is 58 and has a nice body. I asked my friends if they cared if I had sex ...
A. 20 July 2009: Oh brother, you are in some 'state'. 58-14=44YEARS. This lady can be your granny. Are you sure what you see on the outside has anything to do with the inside. I bet she might passout when she discovers how you feel. Listen, you have over 50years of ... (read in full...)
My BF wrote to the aunts about the things awful he's said to me, and now I am destroyed
Q. Hi Aunts, I think my boyfriend wrote a few days ago (I saw something that was similar to what he said to me on his computer) about some things that he's said to me about our sex life (how "f*cking me is like f*cking a doll...I'm only good when I'm ...
A. 20 July 2009: That guy needs a first class flight to hell. And i mean it! It doesnt matter anymore how much have tried to help couples how of their problems, Ijust want to hear that you ditched this dick the second you are through with this article.
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I am very confused by his weird behavior, do you think I am being used? I
Q. I met a guy at a party and thought he was very interested in me. He made out with me and tried to go farther, but I stopped him as I thought it was inappropriate. I went over to his place the next day to watch a movie, but while we were watching it, ...
A. 20 July 2009: To bite right through the cherry, that guy's got a problem. I dont think he's being honest with you.Why does act wierd now that he's already had a piece of you? Ask yourself why it took a drink for him to start leaning on you for comfort and all the ... (read in full...)
Why don't men get it?
Q. Why dont men understand? If men were the ones who had the babies and their bodies stretched and scarred how would they feel if their women were masturbating over buffed men 20 years younger than them...? I still don't get how men seem to think ...
A. 17 July 2009: I think there is a problem. The truth is, porn is destructive but in a very dangerous way. pORN wares down one's guard against infidelity. Sex becomes casual to a regular porn watcher. You get a feeling it is normal to have sex with any woman if ... (read in full...)
Since I was pregnant with our 2nd child he's gone off sex... What can I do?
Q. i have been with my husband for six years now and married for one year. we have two children together when i got pregnant with my 2nd child my husband refused to make love as he felt uncomfortable. i have caught him watching porn on the computer and ...
A. 17 July 2009: Thats pretty painfull coz life without it can be boring. Men wont have sex with their women for many reasons. First, as long as they feel that they are asking too much from their wives. When they realise their wives are more attracted to the ... (read in full...)
Men want porn but have to settle for us
Q. Hi there. I just have a quick question about porn watching please... It seems to me, that porn is what men want, but us (real women-their wives with stretchmarks from their children) is what they have to settle for... Is that true? Thanks ...
A. 17 July 2009: Just to add my comment to many readers/advisors, men seem to like porn so much that it may drive their women crazy, but at the end of the day no man wants to get married to a pornstar! If only all women realized this, porn would even die out. Its a ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have the Madonna/Whore complex?
Q. My husband of over a decade avoids looking at me when I am undressed and when we have sex. Lately I have let him continue his conversations with me while I change clothes right in front of him just to see how he reacts. I wait in the nude for a ...
A. 17 July 2009: Girls have a tendency of sending out mixed signals, even when they are married. Your problem is not a simple one but there are so many solutions. I for one have realized that ladies like you are very rare to come across these days. Your husband is ... (read in full...)
My partner and I have sex w/ others, but we want a family one day. Am I crazy for doing this?
Q. I am a very sexual person..me and my boyfriend of 4 yrs like to engage in crazy sexual activities.we love eachother and are planning to have a family one day. Just last night I have let him have sex with another girl..he enjoyed it..it turned m...
A. 16 September 2007: You are absolutely right to do sth u love. even if its swinging as long as its fun, just do it... (read in full...)
He's already in love with someone..just 3 months after splitting up with me! How can this be?
Q. hello i need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 half years and he finished it with me he said he still loves me as a person but wants to be single but in 3 months he telling me he is in love with her how can he love some one so fast ...
A. 16 September 2007: Sound really sad when u still love someone and he doesnt seem to realise. Sorry, but i think accepting misunderstandings to break you up, if any, was a wrong move. But the women always hold the keys to a relate as long as u have been to bed with him ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my wife's sister that I love her, but I keep chickening out!
Q. i am in love with my wife's sister, i think she feels the same way about me. i am not in love with my wife and considering divorcing her. i love and care about my wife but i am not in love with her, and not sure if i have ever been. i want to tell ...
A. 16 September 2007: Now u are at the edge of disaster that is without mentioning your marriage. If u ever do it, am 95% sure it will take your wife alot of consideration not to break up with you. Plis keep the animal in you under check cos a bird in the hand is worth 2 ... (read in full...)
Is what you see on porn films real or camera trickery????
Q. In a porn vidio i just watched, this guy put a ping pong ball in this girl's vagina. then he pushed it in so it was out of sight. Then he did something with her ass or something. i saw him put his finger's in her vagina, and fish out the ball.could ...
A. 16 September 2007: Truth is, over 90% of this stuff is real but abt 80% of it is dangerous. ... (read in full...)
I want to attract my bf more, to be sure he never leaves (we marry next year.)
Q. i want to attract my boyfriend more, i know he is truly in love with me, and im his only girlfriend,we wanted to marry but because of some truble in our job and study it has been postponed, so we wanna marry the next year, but untill that i want to ...
A. 16 September 2007: Honey pliz just do it for me and try as much as possible to exactly that kind of personality yo bf is. this way u will know what to do to him and when.... (read in full...)
He won't return oral sex, but he shows affection in all other ways. Starting to get fustrated and perceiving him as selfish though...
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 yrs. the 1st couple of months we were together he had gone down on me, although it only lasted a few times. i had never encouraged him to as i beleive it wasnt of real importance. although lately i feel ...
A. 16 September 2007: Truth is oral sex is tight and it takes some amount of confidence for one to give it anyway. First thanx for being such a nice lover. But dont forget to understand ur lovers problem as well. I nfact if u can find a way of putting your fears to his ... (read in full...)
I think I am falling for my roomates gf! What do I do now?
Q. Oh dear. I've just got a new housemate, and I can't stand him. His girlfriend, however, is another matter. She's really nice and I get on well with her and I know she's relatively happy with her boyfriend, but I can't stop myself from falling for ...
A. 16 September 2007: I do have some really perfect advice but that's if u cud email me coz its kinda like strange and quite odd. But try to keep the animal in under check coz u are treading on very dangerous grounds.... (read in full...)
Scared to tell my councillor the truth as he might call me a liar. It's not true that I noticed my parents of the pregancy, as I said...
Q. i had a boyfriend this time last year and i got pregant and had an abortion. and started to see my school concilor...but i lied to him. i said that i did tell my mum and the father, when really i didnt because i was too scared. now i feel guilty and ...
A. 16 September 2007: The best thing is for u to come clean and tell your consillor the truth. Coz u aint going to go too far by coming up with more lies. Actually the BIBLE say that the truth will always set you free.... (read in full...)
I'm turned off from my boryfriend because of his porn habits. How can I get it out of our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend keeps downloading the filthiest porn behind my back and it makes me so sick I donn't even want him to touch me. I've just found one were a woman is practically being abused by 3 men. He says he's not into anal sex but it's in all of ...
A. 16 September 2007: You have all the right to be upset abt a guy who preffers porn to u in a relationship. However it could be worse for both of you if u call it quits. I know its hard for him to leave porn at once. It takes time , your support, somex conselling and ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I wont be big enough to satisfy my girl!
Q. HI IM 15 AND IM ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY GF MY PENIS 5'5 INCHES LNG IM SORTA CONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS COZ I HEAR HER GOING ON ABOUT BIG PENISES SHE IS A VIRGIN IM SKILLED IN BED AND I KNOW MANY WAYS TO PLEASE A GIRL BUT I DONT KNOW IF ILL BE ABLE TO ...
A. 16 September 2007: Watch those capital letters coz its kind a like rude. First u are kind of like torn btn having sex and pleasing a girl. I aint sure whether u are just curious or really are ready to shag your honey. Let me hope the latter is true. No need to panic ... (read in full...)
My husband tires to be Superman, helping everybody where it's needed... But it's really hurting me!!
Q. My husband always tries to be a knight in shining armer. Hes always stops things we are doing as a family or together to go of and save some one so to speak. Some examples are: at 11oclock at night his sister (who lives 3 1/2) miles away phoned t...
A. 16 September 2007: There's never such a thing as tiring out on trying to be a superman. First of all, i know it pains but u had better start looking at it in a positive. This way you will be successfull in getting reduce on the excesses. And the good news is the 2 of ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me two weeks ago. But she's really calling me a lot...is she missing me?
Q. Hello I am 24 my ex 27. She broke up with me two weeks ago. She told me she fell out of love. Well anyways she was calling me everyday to see how things were. So three days ago I decided to not return her calls. She tried to call me 3 times one day, ...
A. 16 September 2007: She definately does miss you and you shuold be very proud abt that. You are just one in a 100000. However, THE most notable point there is the kids' factor. Kids are one of the symbols of a relate never dying nomatter how apart the parents grow.... (read in full...)
We want to experiment with squirty cream, but we don't really know what to do? Any advice?
Q. Hi all, just wanting some friendly advice, me and my partner are both on the large side, my partner is also disabled, we want to experiment with squirty cream, but we don't really know what to do, so can anybody give me some advice?...
A. 16 September 2007: Sorry to say but i suppose that you really reach out for a trained personnel in handling sexual health to help you asses the effects and advantages of squirty cream.... (read in full...)
I'm thinking that if I don't start my sexual life soon, I'll be too scared to initiate it later on. I'm 19...
Q. I am 19 years old and never had sex, im now starting to think if I dont soon I will be too scared to have sex later on. Have you got any advice for me please?...
A. 16 September 2007: As for sex, no matter when u start it, it will always be enjoyable as long as u feel ready and do it with the person u feel most comfortable with.. So dont even think abt getting scared to initiate it coz everybody is nervous at his/her first time. ... (read in full...)
How can I get smaller boobs?
Q. This may come as an odd question but it is dear to heart for me. How can you make your boobs smaller? I am only talking about appearence wise. I claim this as odd because all my friends want bigger boobs, yeah at times I do too, but for this I c...
A. 7 September 2007: Sweetie, u dont need smaller boobs than u already have. Thats what makes u difft from other honeys. Pliz dont crave for any other size of breasts coz u just look gorgeous with those ones.... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing, am I being unreasonalbe? I gave him 100% of me and I know in my gut I'm only getting 50% back.
Q. I came out of an engagement last year, it was a 6 year relationship and ended with me kissing someone else and realising that I wasnt getting what I wanted from my fiance. It hurt considerably to break it off. There was a lot of security involved, ...
A. 7 September 2007: a relate cant continue if there is some lack of trust on either sides. If u feel this aint really committed 2 ur relationship, u had beta move on b4 u turn out to be used goods.... (read in full...)
What do you do when every girl likes the same guy you do and you think he likes you?
Q. Hey guys. Well,there's this guy in my band class.I like him and I don't know if he likes me. He always smiles at me or trys to get me to do wierd things with him.Another thing is that he ALWAYS stairs at me!! I really mean it. We'll be in the middle ...
A. 7 September 2007: simply take a step and let him know how u feel abt him. coz these days the first move doesnt have to always be from the guy.... (read in full...)
I've moved from germany to USA when i was 12. Why do people here not feel its right for teenagers to have sex under 18?
Q. I was born in Germany, and I moved to the USA at the age of 12, since I've moved here I have always been curious as to why having sexual intercourse is such a bad act and disrespect to the parents for Teenagers under 18. In my town, it was ...
A. 2 September 2007: Its basically that way without a clear explanation. After all some people are still big babies after 18, the maturity factor doesnt seem to hold for me. ... (read in full...)
What are the general signs that a girl/woman fancies you?
Q. i am new to the dating scene. what are the general signs that a girl/woman fancies you? only the other day a girl walked by me and looked at me for quite a time. i'm sure she fancied me? so, what are the signs that a girl fancies you? c...
A. 2 September 2007: Not yet, women are more complicated than simply looking at you. In most cases she will make passes at you if she is the bold type otherwise you might never know how much she is dying to have you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...
A. 30 August 2007: I think if you trust him the that crush will surely fade... (read in full...)
I've taken the morning after pill twice, can i take it again? Is this safe?
Q. I had sex just as i was coming off my period, but the condom split, am i stil able to take th morning after pill. also iv taken th pill twice before. is this safe? would it affect my babies later in life?...
A. 30 August 2007: Sorry abt the condom. However you dont need to take multiple birth control pills coz its not healthy... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with looking up skirts! Yes i know, sounds strange, whats going on???
Q. not sure if you could help me.I supose its an addiction.I am obsessed with womens knickers and constantly try to look up womens skirts,even schoolgirls.I know its wrong but i love to see the secrets.one day i will be caught and arrested,am i a ...
A. 30 August 2007: Too much of anything is bad. I nitially it was okay for u to be curious coz all of us guyz want to know waht exacly every woman,s fruit looks like but if u cant control your curiosity then seek some concelling... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to come from sex?
Q. I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for about six months, he was my first and so far I haven't been able to come through sex. I don't really mind as it still feels really good but I was wondering if you had any tips, is it normal not to come from ...
A. 30 August 2007: It may seem normal because its common but it surely isnt. Sexual ecstacy shouldnt be an exclusive commodity to only men but even to women. However its just hard to come for women especially if you havent been stimulated well b4 intercourse. But try ... (read in full...)
We have an age gap and his children dont approve. What to do???
Q. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 51 with two teenage boys. This past weekend we both had said to eachother that we are 'forever'. Well last night his sons had sat him down and expressed how they do not approve of the age gap. Now for him and myself, we ...
A. 30 August 2007: The good news is that you have found love. The bad news is that his kid may never level terms with you. However its your duty to try and befriend them to an acceptable extent. The assurance is that this guy cant let his kids keep u away from him. So ... (read in full...)
I've never felt so deeply in love before, I'm going crazy faking the smiles and hiding the tears...
Q. Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and I love him to death but the initial butterflies are gone and it's deeper, he's more like a family member. His friend and I became really good friends over the past 5 years too and I can't figure ...
A. 30 August 2007: As long as that element of love has grown that strong, there is no reason why you shouldnt pop the qn if he hasnt .... (read in full...)
What if she is playing me the same way she did her boyfriend?
Q. I ain't proud of what I'm about to divulge but it was great, now I seem to be tormenting myself. A couple of years ago, I was dating a girl after a year or so, we were going thru a break up. During the break-up time, I met another girl and we ...
A. 30 August 2007: Sounds strangest when you believe this lady cant play u when she could play somebody else during a steamy sex session in which you are taking part. Players are half born and half made. In most cases such very good ones are born coz they might never ... (read in full...)
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