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I can't stand that she's not a virgin!
Q. Okay so im fairly certain that i want to break up with my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 9 months now and in her eyes everything is going great. But a few months ago I found out she s not a virgin(I am a virgin). Ive tried to let time ...
A. 16 November 2010: you will almost certainly regret leaving a good girl because of something she did in her past.... (read in full...)
What's with this Facebook guy?
Q. Is it possible to fall in love with someone online that you hardly know? This guy on facebook recently friended me. We start chatting and in no time he wants an online relationship (he lives in a different country) and starts telling me he loves me. ...
A. 15 November 2010: A lot of guys use facbook to make sex contacts so just watch out. This heppens to me all the time, also happens a lot to my friends guys add then try be there friends and ask them for more as time goes on. It's just another tactic for guys who can't ... (read in full...)
How do women define maturity?
Q. Why do women put so much importance on a guy's hobbies and possessions to decide if he is "mature" or not? To me, maturity should have nothing to do with anything as superficial as collecting action figures, reading comics, not owning a car for ...
A. 15 November 2010: To me maturity really is shaped around how much balance between seriousness and fun there would be in a relationship, a guys ability to have a deeper understanding and that deeper connection.... (read in full...)
Eighteen and want to be pregnant
Q. I'm eighteen yeast old. I have a real big desire to get pregnant with my boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I've tried keeping myself busy but it doesn't seem to work. We've only been together for a short while. But it's not the relationship that ...
A. 15 November 2010: You might want a baby but remember one day that baby will grow up and be a teenager like you, one day it will be 30!! ... (read in full...)
He's married, but I want him! What should I do?
Q. hi, am a 37 yeas old woman never been married am in a relationship with a married man 4 years ago. we are both really in love. he has a 5 year old boy and has been married for 10 years but he doesn't love her. he says there is nothing keeping him ...
A. 15 November 2010: Don't do it. Tell his wife what he has done.... (read in full...)
He's not who I want him to be.
Q. My boyfriend is not the boyfriend I want him to be. He has very different opinions on everything to me. I know they say opposites attracts but this is extreme. It's mainly about how we see the future [when we'd move in together, what the most ...
A. 15 November 2010: If he isn't who you want him to be then you should definatelty leave him. He will never be who you want him to be so why not go out looking for that guy!!... (read in full...)
Nervous to meet my ld man
Q. I'm so nervous to c my long distance bf of 2 months. We met through mutual friends and he paid for me a plane ticket to go visit! Of course he's seen several diff pics of me but I'm still nervous.. A pic can only go so far! I just want to b ...
A. 14 November 2010: i've been in this situation, give him a long phone call so you can hear his voice, when you see him it will be wierd, but you'll get over it pretty quickly... (read in full...)
Why does my 12 year old sister want a g string?
Q. my 12 year old sister ask our parents if she could have a G-string. why dose she want one at her age...
A. 14 November 2010: it's part of pretending your grown up. Don't let it freak you out ... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't see us "that way"
Q. well ive been friends with this girl for about 5 yars we get along realy well she is amazing.... but ive developed feelings for her and last week dropped the bomb that these feelings were there..... and she just said she doesnt see us in that way...
A. 14 November 2010: the only way to get out the friend boundary is to make sure she sees you as a sexual male rather than a mate. Asert your manlyness around her.?thats the only way it could ever work for me, hope that helps, message me if you want to know more
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Why would a guy text a married woman at 3am?
Q. hi im a male 49 my wife is 46,we worked for the same company on a shut down for 6 weeks just 3 months ago.my wife was a saftey officer i was a wellder.are foreman was a 29 year old male.a little history i would go on the internet a couple of years ...
A. 14 November 2010: it sounds like your wife feels she needs some affection in her life. You need to start giving her attention and stop doing stuff behind her back. You also need to try and build up trust again.... (read in full...)
Is it rare for people to want unconditional love?
Q. Is it better to be honest with one's partner or to withhold the truth about something that you know might lead them to reconsdider being in the relationship? I see so many people advocate for dishonesty in relationships, and I don't understand it. ...
A. 14 November 2010: i think people who keep big things from their partners are crazy, it's interesting to watch them claim that it's the telling the other partner that will ruin the relationship rather than what they actually did. I guess people do want unconditional ... (read in full...)
Could I somehow have gotten herpes from my mom?
Q. hey cupid, its that time again :D right, so, my mother has herpes from a previous partner and has had it for years. she told me this recently and explained how she had it and how she took care of it (as well as how pissed she was at having it and...
A. 14 November 2010: it doesn't sound like herpes just in ingrown hair. I'd still go to the doctor about it for a confirmation and maybe take this little scare as be careful not to share stuff with your mum that could lead to you catching it... (read in full...)
Did I just take her virginity?
Q. We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?...
A. 13 November 2010: penis in vagina = not virgin... (read in full...)
Can't finish masturbating?
Q. well im a girl and im having my first attempts at masturbating, lol, the thing is, when i start rubbing my clit i can't go on with it, it's not like "painful" but i just feel like i have to stop? not because i think it's wrong or anything like that, ...
A. 12 November 2010: It's normal for girls to be overwhelmed by those feelings. You just need to get used to it... (read in full...)
Average woman likes a penis 7.2 inches plus? Is this survey correct?
Q. i read something that says the average penis size is 6inc by 4.75inc around. I also read a survey that said the average woman likes a penis between 7.2 and 8inc by 6inc around. If the mean average for a man is as above and only 20% of men have ...
A. 12 November 2010: Survey says... A load of rubbish ... (read in full...)
Did I just take her virginity?
Q. We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?...
A. 12 November 2010: What? Did she fall over and her clothes fell off and then you fell on top of her and your pants fell off? How do you unintentionally enter someone? Just out of curiosity... (read in full...)
Stay together for the kids?
Q. I have to ask, and I would appreciate people’s responses who have actually dealt directly with divorce, whether that is being the child involved or the parents. My parent’s divorced when I was about 8 years old; my father had been kicked out of t...
A. 12 November 2010: As a child who grew up with parents who tried to stay together for the kids, it doesn't work. Although we are of course initially upset we understand in the long term that it was better you were as individuals and happy than together and sad... (read in full...)
Girl I like says she thinks even 6" is too small, now I feel insecure!
Q. You've probably heard this a trillion times but I just can't get over it for some reason. I've gone through this phase of insecurity before. I had been consoled by a friend and I thought I was feeling confident and over it, but after hearing so...
A. 12 November 2010: Your friend was being cruel. With a guy around she should of been considerate. She can't be that hot if she's mean!
If your smaller than average you'll just have to learn to be really good at foreplay and know what to do with yourself!!... (read in full...)
How do you get big muscular arms?
Q. i am 17 and lets face it a bit of a weakling i have very small arms and i have tried working out but there just hasn't been any difference in the size of my arms or biceps to be precice. what i would like to know is does anyone know a way of ge...
A. 12 November 2010: Good choice, nice arms are soo hot!
Can I just add that if your working on your arms you might want to work on your chest and shoulders as well to keep things in proportion.
There are so many great benefits of being muscly like your level of gener... (read in full...)
Want to be more than friends, but how as a 41 year old virgin?
Q. I am a 41 year old women who is still a virgin. I have always had a weight problem so am very uncomfortable about my body. I also have problems with trusting people not to hurt me or use me. I would love some advice on how to find someone and how to ...
A. 10 November 2010: I think it's easy to get "depressed" about looks these days. There is nothing wrong with being super curvy! Infact my bf once told me he would like me to be like that!!! I think it's a case of the opposite of "when it rains it pours" (when you have ... (read in full...)
Why does my foreskin hurt when I have an erection?
Q. It doesn't hurt when I pull my foreskin back but it hurts when I get and erection, I've done it twice hoping it won't hurt the more I do it,why does it hurt?...
A. 10 November 2010: I'd go to a doctor asap. It sounds to me (and I'm a girl so probably totally wrong) like maybe your foreskin is a bit short or too tight or something.... (read in full...)
Ladies, is therea way to shave down there that isn't equivalent to self-torture?
Q. I prefer the look and feel of having no hair down there. Multiple times in the past I’ve attempted to shave, but I’ve never been able to keep it up for more than three days. It’s just so uncomfortable. For the first day it feels fine, but within 24 ...
A. 10 November 2010: I was going to post as anon but this isn't even my name so screw it haha.
What I do that helps is before your about to get out the bath shave. Put your leg over the side so youve got a better view and it's stretched out. Same on the other side. Then... (read in full...)
This guy is zoning in on my boyfriend!
Q. Last night me and my boyfriend got into a really big argument. It started about this guy who fancy’s my boyfriend and saying stuff like ‘hey u sexy thing’ … I got a little annoyed as obviously I didn’t want other people talking to him like that and ...
A. 10 November 2010: I personally think principle here is quite important. He knows your not comfortable with this! Although I can't imagine if he was trying to prove a point he'd get with this guy cos then you were right.... (read in full...)
Why do you think marriages break up more now than in the past?
Q. Do you remember years ago when families used to sit in at nights? They had no TV, no computer games, no telephones, no DVD's, no video recorders etc etc. They had one another! They had TIME to get to know one another, to BE with one another to ...
A. 9 November 2010: I totally agree with your article. I think it's a shame there are so many distractions that ar there to allow us to be lazy and brain dead.... (read in full...)
This guy is zoning in on my boyfriend!
Q. Last night me and my boyfriend got into a really big argument. It started about this guy who fancy’s my boyfriend and saying stuff like ‘hey u sexy thing’ … I got a little annoyed as obviously I didn’t want other people talking to him like that and ...
A. 9 November 2010: I don't think it's fair that your boyfriend would let him sleep over when he knows how you feel about it.... (read in full...)
I seem to want more than she does in a relationship, any suggestions?
Q. I am a male, and i have been seeing this beautiful, great women for about a year. Our relationship has been purely sexual since I first started seeing her which has been fine by me. I see her about once or twice a week, and she is just an amazing ...
A. 9 November 2010: You really need go for all or nothing because even though in te short term it will be hurtful if she says no in the longterm you aret wastin your time and can move on to someone who is nice and loves you as well because thats what you deserve.... (read in full...)
No matter what I do, I can't seem to bring him to the point of ejaculation!
Q. OK - how to put this delicately...! I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and in many ways we do have a satisfying sex life - from my point of view at least, and he seems to enjoy it to. The thing I worry about is that no matter w...
A. 8 November 2010: I don't think you'll be doing anything wrong it might just be him. I would advice trying teasing him though if you want to build up sensations that could bring him to orgasm.... (read in full...)
Telling him about a drunken mistake could cost our future together
Q. I am 27 years old and been with my partner for nearly 7 years. Last year we were going through a really bad patch and arguing a lot. One night we went out with a few friends and we had all had some drugs and acholol. We have now distanced ourselves ...
A. 8 November 2010: I think it's necessary to say that it's not you telling him that would jeopardise your future it's what you did that will. He deserves to know!! Don't wate his time let him know because it will come out one day.... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me but wants to be with me?
Q. my boyfriend told me straight out he dosent love me but that he still wants to be with me. he said he dosent think he will ever love me but still wants our relationship to work. what do i do?...
A. 8 November 2010: You deserve to be loved so don't waste your time with this guy.... (read in full...)
Is it strange that my boyfriend says he loves me after two months?
Q. Hi guys. This may seem like a really silly question but it's something that has been on my mind for a few days. I've been dating this really great guy for about two months now and our relationship started getting physical a couple of weeks ago. Our ...
A. 8 November 2010: It could have been a heat of the moment thing. Ive felt like blurting that out before but stopped my self.
I know many might not agree but I think that actually you can fall in love very easily with someone and that is is possible he loves you as y... (read in full...)
She's an awesome girl and I'd like her back but the break up was for a dumb reason
Q. I went out with this girl for 3 months, and she left me, for some stupid reasons, things that could have been sorted out if she just talked to me. 2 months after the break-up we became friends. Things was a bit awkward in the beginning, but soon ...
A. 8 November 2010: Maybe it was just a blip for her. I have done that where as I was used to being single I justfreaked out and acted really immaturely and didn't talk to him about what was bothering me as it was an excuse out. And like it seems your girl has she has ... (read in full...)
Chemistry and clicking...does it go both ways?
Q. Hi everyone! I am single and have been dating a lot this past year. Last week I had an amazing first date with this guy. Going into the night, I knew we had a bunch of interests in common, but I tend not to have high expectations wit...
A. 7 November 2010: i would say it does! I haven't ever felt a real chemistry with someone whose actions show they didn't feel that and i came on too strong. I hope.?it may sound stupid but i only get a shiver down my spine when kissing my bf when he does, thats ... (read in full...)
We don't speak the same language!
Q. I'm in love with a chinese girl and I believe she loves me also. She doesn't speak English. I don't speak chinese. We can only communicate through email, mobile and friends (interpreters). What should I do?...
A. 4 November 2010: I think it would be much easier for her to learn English than visa versa however I guess I am a bit bias!!
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How important are blow jobs in a relationship?
Q. Gentlemen, Guys, thank you for your time. Thesis research your age/months-years in relationship, please. On a scale of 1 to 10 how important are blowjobs in a serious relationship? Is it preferred to regular sex? Do you consider it an act of love ...
A. 4 November 2010: My boyfriend shouted over from the other side of the room "very" so guess he means 9/10.
He also told me to write that it should be a reg bit of foreplay... (read in full...)
When you go out with someone, do you have to have sex?
Q. I know, the question sounds silly. I was just wondering, when you 'get together' with someone does it always have to get physical? I don't mind kissing and stuff but it seems that there's a lot of pressure for teenagers to have sex as soon as...
A. 4 November 2010: You may want to, but if you have hanging then you do not have to!... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up my first ever date!
Q. Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...
A. 4 November 2010: It may sound stupid now but next time your walking down the street everything you see think of a thing you could say about it. If you only talk online conversation might be awkward so you may need to pick things from thin air to talk about aka ... (read in full...)
Why do people have sex outside of marriage?
Q. Hi, I'm15, and I'm so sick of hearing about people my age losing their virginity!!! I mean, what happened to losing it on your wedding night?? I just want to know why people have decided that it's soooo important to have sex in a relationship? I ...
A. 4 November 2010: It must be hurtful to see your friends being so annoying. I don't want to call them pathetic but if at your age my friends were being that naive and used that's what id have thought if them.
It's very easy to judge (like I just did) but try and avoi... (read in full...)
Online guy won't talk to me when he's at home. Why is that?
Q. I met this guy through a dating site and we have been chatting online for about 3 months now. We chat almost everyday. He always leaves me offline messages like, 'Hi, beautiful. How's ur day? I miss u.' We see each other on cam often. He says he ...
A. 4 November 2010: Because there is someone at home he is hiding your relationship from.... (read in full...)
How do I convince her we should get back together?
Q. hello everyone , i really need everyones advices, my ldr girlfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that she doesnt want a relationship anymore, she said its not coz of the relationship it self, its coz of her , but i dont get how she could ju...
A. 4 November 2010: It's pretty much impossible to give the best advice we can without knowing what's wrong with her. Have you told we how you felt because if you do she might offer an explanation.... (read in full...)
Is this normal behavior for a LDR!?
Q. so i have been with my man for 2yrs and the first yr was great see each other everday talk everyday all that good stuff 2nd yr he moved a hr away so we became long distance relationship the first 8 months was good talked when he was @ school break ...
A. 4 November 2010: It's always hard when someone says one thin yet does the other. Tell him it's bothering you that he doesn't make that effort anymore. If he ist going to act like your his girlfriend then there is really no point in going out with him.
Just tell... (read in full...)
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