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| | ***la belle vida***'s profile:'La belle vida' i love that saying its italian for 'the beautiful life' because i do honestly believe life should be beautiful. This is partly why i joined dear cupid for all those people who probably don't agree with that statement in the hope (maybe its vain hope lol) i can help people feel the same way. I myself not so long ago would have given two fingers to that statement i was locked in vicious circle of depression, self-harm and alcohol at the tender age of 15. I had no one to talk to and now i'm scarred for life, i feel if i can save just one person from that i've accomplished something. Now i'm 16 no longer depressed and thinking positive, you may think i will struggle to give advice at my age, that may be true in some areas but you can be guaranteed a frank, simple and honest answer always
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I feel stupid for having this crush on my biology teacher! What can I do?
Q. Hiya people, This is really stupid of me i am 18 and have a crush on my 34 year old biology teacher i feel like i am 14 all over again like when i had my first crush on a different teacher. I have no idea what to do :S yesterday he not...
A. 26 January 2007: Enjoy your crush, but please for the love of god don't make a move on this guy, his career and your reputation would be in tatters. The haircut comment by the way you are doing what most people do when they have crushes and reading into a trivial ... (read in full...)
I'm the only vgirl he knows that is still a virgin and I think he wants it! What should I do?
Q. hello everyone am 15 years old and am talking to this guy who is 17 years old. he says that am the only virgin he knows. he always wants to talk about ''sex''. he always wants to know what i think or what i do since am still a virgin. he is very ...
A. 26 January 2007: This guy obviously wants to sleep with you, he is been manipulative in the fact hes saying your the only virgin he knows, because he most likely feels this will make you feel pressure to 'fit in' and want to sleep with him aswell as saying hes 'to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has gained weight, but if I say something she'll hate me! How do I tell her?!
Q. My girlfriend is gaining weight and won’t do anything about it. I need help with my communication. How can I help her? I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I’ve been dating now for the past 13 months. Since the day we met she has slowly been gaining ...
A. 26 January 2007: SHAME ON YOU! If you love someone you love them for the person inside not the superficial outer shell. You are been incredibly shallow, and unless your partner has become so morbidly obese shes a danger to herself (which i doubt, you should not say ... (read in full...)
I was home-schooled and now I'm back in class I know nothing about boys!
Q. I've been homeschooling since grade 5,... i've decided to go back to school now because grade 11 is quite hard to homeschool (i am 1 grade ahead of my friends). There is this guy i REALLY like,... he's charming, sweet, good looking... everything any ...
A. 26 January 2007: Aww darling, innocence is precious it should be preserved and cherished, once you lose its gone forever and never comes back.If many people could turn back time, alot would not have bothered with boyfriends. Well for one thing i started seeing lads ... (read in full...)
I'm attached to my guy on the side even though I think he may be using me. Should I walk away?
Q. Hi I am 32yrs female, married, but have been having an affair with a 48yr old single guy. I am confused as I really like this guy alot, may be falling inlove with him, we have been seing one another for 4 months now, and had sex in the last 2 ...
A. 26 January 2007: Honey, he does not feel anything for you, the feelings you lavish upon him are not recipricated in anyway, he probably sees that as an ego boost and is taking advantage of your feelings so you can be his 'booty call'. I am not going to lecture you ... (read in full...)
Saw him goofing off at school with 2 other girls! I'm pretty upset..am I over-reacting??
Q. saw him with 2 other girls!! okay I know I dont own him and all but when A guy says he likes you and shit and always wants to hang out and have sex with you and shit means he really likes you right?? after we talked on msn and the phone for ...
A. 4 November 2006: He sounds like such a total player! i bet he said to them other girls he wants to hang out and have sex with them too. Just forget this loser.
take care hunni xxxx... (read in full...)
All he does is look at my flaws!! Advice please!
Q. Hi I have been going out with a lovely guy for a year now and in many ways he is my idal man and we love each other very much . The problem is that six months ago he came to me one day all upset and said he was thinking all sorts of strange ...
A. 4 November 2006: Get rid of this loser! he is damaging your self esteem and self concept. Another few years with this guy you could be a cowering wreck scared people will think you are ugly. IT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE. Just because he had excema growing up gives him no ... (read in full...)
Shall I trick him into having a child?
Q. i have been with my parnter for about two years, and i really want a baby with him and he wants to wait another two years before trying and i want one NOW, i have thought about telling him i am still taking the pill when i wouldnt be, but then when ...
A. 4 November 2006: Never do this because this could leave your child without a father, and thats not fair. Think about whats best for the child and in my opinion it sounds like waiting them two years will be best.
take care hunni xxxxxx... (read in full...)
I took a pill which stopped my period while I was on holiday, now I'm in pain!
Q. Hiya.. Whilst I was on holiday I took the 'Utovlan' pill which stopped my periods so I could go in the pool and basically enjoy it. Although, after I took the pill my periods are starting to hurt a lot more than usual where as before I went on ...
A. 3 November 2006: As a veteran of many pills (dianette,yasmin,cilest) I can say this sounds like a side effect some womens bodies just don't agree with the pill (the reason i've taken so many kinds) see what happens if this gets worse definately go to your GP. As for ... (read in full...)
I'm skinny and want to impress this girl. Is it possible to get "six pack' abs in 5 days?
Q. i'm 16. i have a close female friend who is also 16. we go to the same school. i have recently joined the gym as i am tryin to keep fit and help me gain weight. well i have a guest pass and i asked her to come. she accepted and told me she is free ...
A. 3 November 2006: nah sorry, if you no want abs work at it slowly, changing your diet for the better, joining a gym, doing plenty of andominal excercises etc. I tell you the dedication is well worth it!
take care hunni xxxxxx... (read in full...)
I've fallen for someone 7 years older than me - I'm afraid of what people might say about him! Please help!!
Q. When I was 16, my aunt introduced me to a guy who was 23. We hung out for the night and hit it off really well (not romantically). He's cute, funny, so sweet, and we had fun together. That was two years ago. Over the past two years we've beco...
A. 2 November 2006: Your above the age of consent what should peoples problem be really? If they do say anything they are probably jealous. Lots of men date teenagers my dad married an 18 year old when he was 36 and nobody said anything!
take care hunni xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Is dry sex the same as dry humping?
Q. Honestly what is dry sex? Is it the same as dry humping??...
A. 2 November 2006: dry sex is when the woman doesn't get wet, different to dry humping
take care hunni xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
What can a girl do to make her breasts grow bigger?
Q. what should a girl do for her tits to grow bigger?...
A. 2 November 2006: Oh hunni your perfect as it is :) i have really big boobs and my god the hassle...finding a bra that fits, backache, guys gawping and finding clothes that actually go around them!
If you do want to look more ample invest in a wonderbra, my frien... (read in full...)
His mates tease him about us and it's harming our relationship! What can I do?
Q. hey i have a real problem ok ive been out with this guy 6 times...and it hasnt worked out for more than a week because his mates keep making fun and saying crap like 'have you f**ked her yet?' and he didnt want that. ...
A. 1 November 2006: These guys are just immature, but alot of lads/men have that kind of banter. he should try n speak to them about it u never know they might understand. If he won't and would rather let you go hes a loser
take care hunni xxxxx
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I made eye contact with her and smiled. But now..I'm to shy to go up and talk to her! What should I do?
Q. der is dis 14yr old gurl i fancy. she goes to my skul. im 16. usually at lunch everyone leaves skul. on day bk i usually go past her. today i got da courage to make eye contact and smile. she smiled first. i den luked away as i went past. im jus too ...
A. 1 November 2006: talk to her about something,anything! simple things like saying hi the next time you walk past her. Or find something you have in common like going for a cig (not condoning smoking just its something a lot of people do especially at school if you ... (read in full...)
Is having oral sex with someone under the age consent..still considered illegal?
Q. Okay so i get the age of consent stuff, and how you can still get in trouble if you're both underage, but is it considered rape if you get oral sex from your GF if you're both underage? how bout if one of you is over the age?...
A. 1 November 2006: If both of you are underage its not rape but it is illegal, however if you are over the age of consent and gving or recieving oral sex from a minor it could be classified as statutory rape as in the eyes of the law oral sex is regarded in the same ... (read in full...)
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