He won't tell the ex-family to quit harassing him. He just says its better to ignore it all. It's impacting our relationship, and I want it to stop.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We were friends several years before that. He was in an unhappy and sometimes violent marriage and they were always seperating and trying to work things out. His family hated her very much, she ...
A. 10 September 2008: Wonderful news! I think you have a handle on the whole situation. You are totally correct it's their loss, a son, a lovely daughter in law, and a beautiful grandchild. What a pity. You keep holding your head up sweetheart, you have behaved like a ... (read in full...)
How do I help my partner have courage to stand up against his ex wife's divorce demands?
Q. My partner and wife split 3 years ago. The kids are 21 and 20. He did not wrong her, it just all broke down. He is a loving man and tries to be a good Dad but , as to be expected I suppose, has been receiving loads of hatred. They have been ...
A. 28 August 2007: He's got absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain by getting a lawyer involved at this point. Let the lawyer deal with it all that's why they get paid the big bucks and it will be less stress on him.... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to expect to be paid to babysit my sister's daughter?
Q. I am a stay at home mom with a 4 mo. old, and I'm also pregnant. My older sister works full time and whenever her day care woman is unavailable, she asks me to watch her 4 y/o daughter. She gets here at 6 a.m. to drop her off, and doesn't pick her ...
A. 27 August 2007: Well I would take a deep breath and just come out and tell her that you want to be compensated or she will have to find another substitute for her day-care provider. Also don't let her drop her kid off when she's sick your sister should stay home ... (read in full...)
My fiancee becomes mad at me, screams, offends. I didn't deserve it, what should I have done?
Q. My fiancee and I flew out to a diff city for a weekend. We were out walking out in public, while sitting on a bus stop he rips out the map that I was looking at since we were lost. So, I told him he can wait till Im done looking at, but he ...
A. 27 August 2007: "What would you have done if you were me?" I'll tell what I'd right NOW, show the jerk the door. He certainly can't love you and treat you like this. He most likely is incapable of truely loving someone because he has too many issues. You will be ... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to expect to be paid to babysit my sister's daughter?
Q. I am a stay at home mom with a 4 mo. old, and I'm also pregnant. My older sister works full time and whenever her day care woman is unavailable, she asks me to watch her 4 y/o daughter. She gets here at 6 a.m. to drop her off, and doesn't pick her ...
A. 27 August 2007: You are being taken advantage of because you are allowing it to happen. Tell your sister you want to be paid or that you want equal time with her babysitting your baby. Fair is fair. If she gets emotional on you just ignore her, sounds like she uses ... (read in full...)
We broke up a week ago and he's now ignoring me. I'm hurting. How should i respond?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago and he said we would maintain a friendship. I have sent him a couple of emails about routine things and he is not responding. I do not know if I am more hurt by the breakup or by the way he has cut me ...
A. 27 August 2007: You need to stop trying to contact him. You left the ball in his court. Now is the time to focus on you. Breakups are always painful but just think about how you won't be wasting anymore time on a relationship that was not meant to be. Stay busy, go ... (read in full...)
My husband doesnt want to spend time with us!
Q. My hubby seems to be miserable at the moment (not sure if he is depressed). I don't what to do, or how to help him anymore. He's very good round the house and helps with tidying etc because he did all this when he lived on his own before met m...
A. 24 August 2007: I would definitely have him go to the doctor and this time ask the doctor to prescribe an anti-depressant for your husband. It takes awhile for it to get into the system and if he is truly suffering from depression it will be almost a miracle how ... (read in full...)
How can i make sure i don't lose her?
Q. Hi I am in college now and my girlfriends first day as a senior in high school was 2day...I love her with all my heart and I am just scared that I might loose her while I'm away. I see her every weekend and I try 2 keep her interest. I know she ...
A. 24 August 2007: You can never make sure you don't lose someone other than by behaving yourself and showing them plenty of love and attention. Don't dwell on this, just enjoy your relationship.... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to think I'm not just horney, but actually I'm bi.. !
Q. Me and my friend always have sex when we are drunk but we both officially stated that we're just horney hetrosexual girls who are having fun when drunk and nothing more... now she's got herself a boyfriend so we dont do it anymore. i'm so so jealous ...
A. 24 August 2007: She is in a relationship at the moment. You need to deal with your feelings and just be her friend. If the relationship comes to an end then you can have a chat with her but not while she is involved with someone else.... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a 13 yr old girl! How do I stop this urge?
Q. Ok this is going to sound wierd and make me sound creepy and like a pedophile. I'M NOT!! I am attracted to a 13 year old girl. I am 17. How do I stop my urges toward a girl this age? I mean I have always dated younger girls but never one 4 years ...
A. 24 August 2007: Sorry Dude but you'd best lay off the jailbait. It only spells trouble for you.... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm in love with him!
Q. Hey:-) Theres a straight guy Im in love with -Im certain- but i dont know if he is straight? And its like he's interested, sometimes but its like he is scared of people and what they might think of him. I really love this guy and I think we will ...
A. 24 August 2007: Are you male or female? You say you are female but then this post doesn't make much sense to me.... (read in full...)
I am way too attracted to my wifes sister!
Q. I have been a happily married man for several years now and I very much love my wife. Her sister has also been living with us for years and I have known her for as long as I've known my wife. The problem is, her sister has gotten hotter and hotter ...
A. 24 August 2007: Wowie, you need to talk to a therapist, something is rattling around in there, Buddy. If you really do love your wife you'd ask Sis to find a place of her own. Sounds like the pressure cooker is whistling to me. Make an appointment with counseling ... (read in full...)
What happens at a stag and doe?
Q. What happens at a stag and doe? I'm going to one soon and its my first one. Is it normal to bring a date? Any details is much appreciated. ...
A. 24 August 2007: I must be really old, I have no clue what this is.... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years, but I've had feelings for another man the whole time!
Q. When I was 20 i started a waitressing job. I had the biggest crush on this one customer. He would come in everyday and we had so much in common. Didn't think he (Riley) would be interested in me because he was 32yrs old. So I started to date (Gordy) ...
A. 24 August 2007: Sweetheart only you can decide who the right person is, if you just stay with Gordy because he is safe and comfortable then that isn't very fair to him is it? Don't forget the grass looks greener on the other side stuff but you say you know ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be "that girl," but I really like a married man
Q. Two years ago, I met a guy who I ended up falling for. He had literally just got into a relationship, so I didn't try anything, and I certainly didn't say anything about how I felt about him. His girlfriend ended up getting pregnant- so they ended ...
A. 24 August 2007: You've wasted about a month of your life with the cheater. If you want to waste more then keep it up. But do not come here and proclaim how moral you are, we have eyes, prove it.... (read in full...)
How do I help my partner have courage to stand up against his ex wife's divorce demands?
Q. My partner and wife split 3 years ago. The kids are 21 and 20. He did not wrong her, it just all broke down. He is a loving man and tries to be a good Dad but , as to be expected I suppose, has been receiving loads of hatred. They have been ...
A. 24 August 2007: Right on Irish! I would like to add that He didn't Abandon he Separated from his wife after numerous pleadings. Sounds like her pride was hurt and that doesn't necessarily mean that she actually loved him. If she had she would of listened to him. He ... (read in full...)
Even though he has a relationship with my children he will not let me meet his daughter!
Q. I have been dating a man for 2 years even though he has a relationship with my children he will not let me meet his daughter, also he can be so loving and then all of a sudden he starts to ignore me, if I finish with him he wants me back. I do not ...
A. 24 August 2007: Oh Baby, this does not sound good to me. He doesn't want his daughter to meet you because he doesn't want his Ex to know anything about you. He doesn't want to muddy the waters in case she might consider taking him back. He definitely doesn't sound ... (read in full...)
How do I help my partner have courage to stand up against his ex wife's divorce demands?
Q. My partner and wife split 3 years ago. The kids are 21 and 20. He did not wrong her, it just all broke down. He is a loving man and tries to be a good Dad but , as to be expected I suppose, has been receiving loads of hatred. They have been ...
A. 24 August 2007: Well really, if the marriage just broke down why should he lose out on the house and assets? He should speak to a lawyer so he doesn't get ripped off by his very vengeful first wife. I mean the kids are grown after all, most couple would just put ... (read in full...)
I think my step-mom tried to poison me!
Q. I think my stepmom tried to poison me. About ten years ago my dad remarried this woman who was a real bitch. I had just moved with my mother when they had started dating so I didn't really have much contact with them except for a couple of weeks ...
A. 24 August 2007: Afraid it's all water under the bridge at this point. They are divorced you don't see her anymore. I doubt if she did try to poison you however. Poisoning is always checked out especially if a young person dies unexpectedly so she wouldn't have ... (read in full...)
His abuse is getting worse, he's tried to strangle me 5 times!!!
Q. I've been with my husband for 3 years and I don't know what to do. I have a six year old boy who adores him and a one year old baby girl. The problem is he has become physically abusive. He has tried to strangle me five times but generally just ...
A. 24 August 2007: Unless you want your children to be motherless then you have no choice but to leave and you know it. This situation will not get better only worse. His drinking problem will escalate and he will get drunk more often and hence the abuse will escalate ... (read in full...)
How do I help my partner have courage to stand up against his ex wife's divorce demands?
Q. My partner and wife split 3 years ago. The kids are 21 and 20. He did not wrong her, it just all broke down. He is a loving man and tries to be a good Dad but , as to be expected I suppose, has been receiving loads of hatred. They have been ...
A. 24 August 2007: He deserves to have half of the house. He should buy out the wife or she buy out his share. I'm sure the judge will demand it. Also any other assets should be divided in half as well as any debt. That is what the Divorce Court will say. He certainly ... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince him to get a divorce?
Q. He's still married and we are expecting our first child. I'm 18 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We've known each other for 5 years. We met our first day of High School when I moved to FL. We dated a little...
A. 24 August 2007: Well if it is money then you can only save what you can whenever you can until you have enough to file, but if there is something else holding him back from filing you need to find it out and talk it out with him. What else can be said?... (read in full...)
What's with the sudden anal sex craze?
Q. I'm 45 and over the course of the last 4 years I have dated 3 guys and each one of them requested to have anal sex. My boyfriend of 7 years before never asked for this........what's up with the anal sex craze and why is it so much better than ...
A. 23 August 2007: I don't even see how a woman would ever want to do this. all her receptors are vaginal. But to each their own I guess.... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince him to get a divorce?
Q. He's still married and we are expecting our first child. I'm 18 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We've known each other for 5 years. We met our first day of High School when I moved to FL. We dated a little...
A. 23 August 2007: I'd start keeping back a little of the grocery money until you have enough saved to pay for the filing costs. It's no fault divorces in most states, pretty sure in Ohio as well so he can divorce pretty easily even if his wife drags her feet. If he ... (read in full...)
I've been in love with a married woman for two and a half years
Q. Please give me some advice. I have been in love with a married woman for 2.5 years. Although we haven't had an affair, I can't seem to stop thinking about her and hoping that maybe one day she will be available to me. I am considering moving ...
A. 23 August 2007: There is no future with her so you should do whatever you think will help you to forget about her. If that means moving away, then move. If it means staying busy, do it. Time is your best friend. Good luck, Buddy.... (read in full...)
Life can be so unfair... the man I fell in love with ditched me and got hitched to younger lady!
Q. I met a man last year and we spent a lot of time together. I fell in love with him but he suddenly changed and wouldn't speak to me.I was also very hurt because he met someone soon after me and married her after just 5 months. She is 14 years ...
A. 23 August 2007: You need to try and get on with your life. Do not try to get in touch with him. It's over. Stay busy, go out with friends, in time you will find you think of him less and less and you may also find a new love. Best of luck.... (read in full...)
Why is my ex bf calling me and talking about these other women?
Q. Hoping someone can help me figure this out. My boyfriend ended the relationship bacause he met someone else. I felt bad but have moved on, I think. We split a couple of months ago. He called me out of the blue a week ago...just to chat. I was ...
A. 23 August 2007: You are right, it sounds pointless to me too. I wouldn't take anymore calls from him. He is a waste of space.... (read in full...)
We have split up because of my son.
Q. Hi All, New to the site. I have a problem. Basically I love my wife very very much we have been married about 5 years and it is my second marriage. Everything was great until xmas. My first wife threw my eldest son out [aged 14] and I agreed he ...
A. 23 August 2007: It sounds like you have the situation,albeit not ideal, under control. Your son is lucky to have such a great Dad. You won't regret this time you are spending on raising him. I hope his relationship with his step-mom improves so you guys can be ... (read in full...)
How do I tell if my teacher really fancies me? He seems quite friendly to me!
Q. hi, i fancy my teacher and he seems to be extremely friendly and chatty towards me and my friends all say he does little things like when we were performing a play, one eye was following me around. how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just...
A. 22 August 2007: I wonder what his other eye was doing?... (read in full...)
I decided I go 'scold' my ex in revenge. But not knowingly, I realised, I've been talking to his mother and she now wants me to see her on Friday and she will go see the principal about this matter.
Q. Okay, this is kinda following up from my last question. I told that classmate whom I like how I feel. But in return I got rejected but managed to still remain friends. However, I'm not really convinced. Sometimes, I do feel that he looks at me. Or ...
A. 22 August 2007: What exactly did you say? ... (read in full...)
I received a text from my girlfriend to say "you're dumped", no explanation, nothing, she won't answer my calls. What do I do?
Q. I had been with my girlfriend for exactly two months OK things have been a bit rocky from time to time due to her mental health problems that she assured me she was over the worst of them at the begining of the relationship and in that time she has ...
A. 22 August 2007: Sorry this happened to you. She obviously still has some mental problems after all. What she DOESN'T have is manners and class. You're better off in my opinion and I'm sure when the pain lessens you'll agree.... (read in full...)
What are the chances of seeing her again?
Q. I was filling my car up with petrol yesterday and as i was walking in the shop to pay for it this girl/woman was coming out. As i was approaching i noticed she looked like an angel, she looked absolutely beautiful, everything that i would choose in ...
A. 22 August 2007: Hopefully you will bump into her again and if you do you can ask her to go get a cup of coffee or tea. Keep your eyes open. Good luck, I hope she isn't already taken!... (read in full...)
He won't tell the ex-family to quit harassing him. He just says its better to ignore it all. It's impacting our relationship, and I want it to stop.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We were friends several years before that. He was in an unhappy and sometimes violent marriage and they were always seperating and trying to work things out. His family hated her very much, she ...
A. 22 August 2007: I think you are certainly right but unfortunately HE is one who needs to talk to all these people and tell them to back off and mind their own beeswax. He can still divorce his wife I think all states have no fault divorces now. Eventually they may ... (read in full...)
Is there something going on between his co-worker and him?
Q. Hi I think that my bf has something going on at work with his co-worker whom just recently started there. Within 1 month, he knows so much about her already. Also, he's been getting in earlier to work and stays a bit longer than usual. And, wh...
A. 22 August 2007: If my partner said something like that to me I'd be gone in a flash whether he was cheating or not. He sounds like a real jerk. But since you are not asking about that but rather how you can find out if he's cheating I guess you could show up at his ... (read in full...)
My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker.
Q. I have been happily married for almost 17 years. My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker. I feel terrible, but I can't help how I feel. We have been having ...
A. 22 August 2007: Get a grip woman. You aren't some feather on the wind. You are a grown woman, get yourself under control or you'll lose everything you hold dear. You had a severe lapse of judgement, don't let it happen again.... (read in full...)
I have been in a relationship for 7 years now with a married man with wife and three kids.
Q. Hello, hope all of you are doing well with god's blessings upon us every day. My question is I have been in a relationship for 7 years now with a married man with wife and three kids. I am a moslem am not growing younger, he is a roman catholic p...
A. 22 August 2007: You've wasted 7 years of your life being someone's bit on the side, how sad. To think that when you look in the mirror no honor or integrity looks back, how sad. In the years to come when he sits on the couch with his wife and grandkids, you'll be ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend seems jealous that I am going to meet someone new
Q. Hi all. I've had a lack of help from people on this site with my questions recently, so I've decided to keep it as simple as possible: Last night, I told my ex long distance girlfriend of 2 years that I was meeting a girl on Thursday, as a f...
A. 22 August 2007: Andy please listen to the Doc. Very good advice there. Meet up with your friend and try to have a good time. I know you feel that you aren't getting any helpful answers here but you truly are. We see your situation clearer than you do I fear. I know ... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 22 August 2007: "I unfortunately don't think anyone here is able to give me an utterly objective response."
No you are not looking for objectivity you are looking for validation and you aren't finding it. You are also looking for trouble, knock off this nons... (read in full...)
Help me! I want to have sex with my own sister
Q. hello i need advise i am 16 years old and i want to have sex with my sister she is realy attractive i dont know wat to do plz help...
A. 21 August 2007: I think you have posted this before and I think you just enjoy the wrath of the aunts. If on off chance you are new to the site then I'll tell you what I told the other guy who keeps posting this...get in your shower...C stands for cold...turn it on ... (read in full...)
My new guy is not quite divorced yet. Is it ok to date him?
Q. Hi, I need advice. I am currently seeing a really great guy who although he says he is seperated from his wife and at the point of divorce is still living in the house with her. He says they have separate rooms and he is always with me. I don't ...
A. 21 August 2007: If he's still living with her then he's still having sex with her, bet on it. He's having the best of two worlds so don't figure he'll be moving out soon. Tell him to look you up when he truly is divorced.... (read in full...)
I cheat on my fiancee all the time, but its his fault cause he got me into computers
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man who i love,but i am addicted to cheating.It seems so easy,they are all available on the internet. He has almost caught me twice,but luckily i turned it around on him and now he has to prove to me that he`s not a ...
A. 21 August 2007: Don't be blaming your boyfriend for your own character flaws and weaknesses. Don't marry the guy either.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and want a baby!
Q. Hi everyone. My name is Robyn and I'm 17. I've been going through a lot lately and I don't know what to do. All last year I was very ill and I thought at one point I was pregnant. When I found out I wasn't, I was devastated. I want a baby so ...
A. 21 August 2007: Get your education first. It will make you a better mother.... (read in full...)
We have split up because of my son.
Q. Hi All, New to the site. I have a problem. Basically I love my wife very very much we have been married about 5 years and it is my second marriage. Everything was great until xmas. My first wife threw my eldest son out [aged 14] and I agreed he ...
A. 20 August 2007: I am truly sorry this has happened. There really is no clear solution. It is of course your duty to do right by your son. I guess unless your wife decides she misses you too much to live apart then you will just have to wait until your son is old ... (read in full...)
I have morning sickness and i'm scared.
Q. i am 12 years old. and i lost my virginity about a week ago. i have morning sickness i have strange cravings for pickles before i go to bed. but it may just be bkuz of my diet but i am scared.. wait no REALLY REALLY REALLY SUPER DUPER SCARED!!! ...
A. 20 August 2007: You can't be having pregnancy symptoms one week after having sex. Those don't usually come on until around three MONTHS after conception. Whatever are you thinking? Having unprotected sex is very irresponsible and irresponsible people should not be ... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 25 July 2007: You've already made up your mind so I guess you are still here waiting for someone to say something to validate your decision. It won't be me I think you are looking for trouble.... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 20 July 2007: I just think you are taking a risk when no risk HAS to be taken. Out of sight- out of mind.... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 19 July 2007: Of course this is not a good idea, it is a very, very bad one as a matter of fact. Whether he is happily or unhappily married is none of your concern. Married is married. Hands off and move on. You can find another person to be "friends" with.... (read in full...)
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