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writes:Thank you for reading this. I have never used the Internet for answers, I am very confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we love each other undoubtedly. Lately though I have been questioning his sexuality. There are a few things about him that make me wonder. First is sex; now he does get hard very quickly and he climaxes everytime, however, he doesn't really look at me, play with my breasts or anything, talk during it, or even initiate it most of the time. He has never showed much of an interest in trying to get me to climax; I have never had an orgasm during sex since he is my first boyfriend. For a very long time I just thought there was something wrong with me. Then there's the way he sits sometimes he crosses his legs very femininely or how he will rest his hands on or touch his collarbone and neck when he is very relaxed; it just looks gay. And most of all, he doesn't ever seem to be comfortable with himself around anyone not even me when were alone. Am I just insecure or do you think he's gay and in denial or maybe he has repressed his feelings and hasnt even come to terms with it himself?
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reader, HawkDoll +, writes (30 January 2011):
HawkDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your answers. Everything everyone has stated makes so much sense and I feel much more at ease now.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2011):
He's not even close to day. What he is, is a man who only cares for his quick thrill. I think you'll find that basically he's either a selfish lover, or he's underconfident in bed. Maybe you should take the lead and see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): *are not*
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): Labeling a guy as gay because things are going well as bed, is as bad as a guy saying a girl is frigid if she doesn't want to have sex, it's a pretty unfair judgement. He may be inexperienced, show him what you need to climax he's not a mind reader.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 Honestly, I think you're just looking for reasons why he's not a very attentive lover. Just being it "looks gay" doesn't mean he's gay. I used to know this guy, Straight, who stood like a chick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): You sound neglected more than he sounds gay. Even if you solve the mystery, you should probably move on to someone who is more attentive.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (29 January 2011):
 looks gay... mmmmm... there's no test, there no gay way to sit or act or move... You know his gay when you find him having sex with men. He get hard and can have sex with you, if he was gay it's more likely he'd find it hard to have an erection with you around.
Instead of these assumptions, it's far better to tell him that he's not treating you good in bed and you don't get any pleasure. If he's your age it's more likely he knows nothing about girls or sex and has spent his time masturbating alone.
He probably has no idea what to do, so tell him you would like him to touch, kiss and look at you more.
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