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writes:My heart is broken. I've been seeing this guy for a year now. He pursued me, but I saw evidence in his car and at his office that he was involved with someone so I said no thanks, friends!He swore up and down that he was single. Eventually I started to believe him, but in the back of my mind I thought of my brother and how he cheated on his wife so many times....Well *my* guy, he's married. A couple of friends showed me plenty of evidence. I sent him a nasty text, just one, and have yet to hear back from him. Not that I want to, I'm just confused and angry and hurt, and embarrassed, my friends are kind but still I am humiliated. I am trying to get a grip. We work together, we slept together, I wasted so many awesome blowjobs on him. I am devastated, what can I do to erase this horrible experience from my life? I want to run away but have no where to go..I want to tell his wife, I want to scream.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): Hire an attorney, have him send a letter to the wife, return receipt requested so you know that she gets it, explaining that you didn't know, and apologizing for any inadvertent hurt you may have caused.
She deserves to know.
Never talk to him again, for any reason.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2011):
As a woman pointed out here the other day, mistresses usually get the bottom of the barrel treatment. Guaranteed if you went to his wife, she'd blame you. Don't bother.
You've got some good friends around you, and you now know this guy is beyond worthless. You are better off moving on and having a good rant with friends.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 I am sorry, but it seems that you ignored the little voice in the back of your mind telling you he was not single.
Just be thankful your friends cared enough and were couragous enough to be the messengers and bring you the evidence, because all too often when faced with a nasty truth we blame them instead.
He sounds like a serial cheater to me and I don't think telling his wife will do you any good, she probably already has her own little voices in the back of her head, she may have kids and committments that need to be taken care of .... whatever the truth is in their relationship there is nothing to be gained for you by telling her anything.
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