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reader, SALLY (Mum to Lisa-Sue)  +, writes (4 February 2011):
Well, why don't you try cybering without a cam and then with a cam to see if you like each others techniques and then Actually HAVE SEX with her ... but Do Not Penetrate each other the first couple of times. you could masturbate and Penetrate Yourselves in front of each other the first couple of times, and then Go All The Way on The 3rd Time. This way you'ss see if You Are SEXUALLY COMPATIBLE before you Commit Yourselves and risk the Chance of Spoiling a Beautiful friendship If YOU ARE NOT Sexually Compatible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): no offense but that thing you call your friend is NOT your friend. The only thing she wants from you is your cherry. She 's an idiot and she gives lesbians a bad rep. Don't have anything else to do with her. She's shitting on you and it's up to you to sock it to her by slamming your door in her face. What a nasty foul piglet that thing is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): She's wack! Don't even give her an answer and cut off your friendship with. She's doesn't give a sh*t about you. All she wants to do is use you and a friend would never treat you like this. Get rid of her!
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reader, Fallen angel 92  +, writes (30 January 2011):
Personally I think she is just using you for sex if she doesn't want you without sex then she will probably only want you for the sex afterwards. Losing your virginity to someone who doesn't really care about you can't feel that great.
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reader, Drat001 +, writes (30 January 2011):
How old is this girl? It sounds like she's trying to be a sex predator. Get away from her.
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reader, BrownEyesGirl +, writes (30 January 2011):
 thats ridiculous
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): Trust your instinct on this one...do not compromise your virginity. She sounds as if she is just looking for a good time, you have no guarantee she will commit to you.
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reader, anonymous105  +, writes (29 January 2011):
Agreed. Definitely not normal, she shouldn't ask that of you.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (29 January 2011):
I agree with the other advice, I suspect this girl is going to hurt you if you allow her to. She's thinking of herself, and not you. Someone who genuinely wants to care about you would never say such a thing.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (29 January 2011):
 You are very right to be concerned.You only get one first time time and what this girl is asking just does not make sense to me!If she cared about you there is no reason you need to have sex with her before a relayionship!! i have never heard anything so crazy and disrespectful.You should be in a happy relationship and feel ready and comfortable when you sleep with someone, not have to use sex to bargin a relationship.Of course it is up to you but if it was me i would be telling this girl there is no chance and that you are so much better than this!Good luck
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