A
female
age
26-29,
*sk cupid xxx
writes:What's it like moving school? Like is it hard to fit in cause everybody has already got their friends. I'm having alot of problems at my school atm cause this rumour is going round bout me doing stuff with this guy and everybody thinks its true which it is but its going to be hard to live down and I cant deal with it so thought bout moving schools and this is the only time my parents have ever taken me serious bout moving school (they dont know the rumours true of course but still) Just dont tell me that i was stupid or anything just helpful answers please x Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, just a female  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 dear a female,
rumors are nasty things even if they are true, but are you sure you need to move school because of it? normally rumors fade over time and as long as you dont give power to the one spreading the rumor then hopefully it should go away. by moving school you are showing the person who spread the rumor that you are afraid and are giving power to them? is that what you want? you say you can deal with it, but im sure you can, be strong and try to distance yourself from the people that are attacking you. how did the rumor get spread in the first place? did a trusted friend tell someone? the guy? just relax ignore the losers out there and let it all wash away.
hope this helps.
xxx
|
