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writes: How to learn to love small breasts?I have small breasts, and I don't like how they look. I know women can look good with small breasts, like Kate Hudson or Natalie Portman, but I just don't think they look sexy or hot, just pretty. I'm also more built like Shakira, except I'm not as petite, since I'm taller and all that. I have wide hips, small waist, the whole deal.It also doesn't help that my boyfriend prefers women the size of Lucy Pinder! I asked him if he liked big breasts better and he said yes... I've never asked him his favourite size, afraid that he'll say he likes massive breasts like Lucy's, but yeah, he has pics of her and other glamour models in his PC.I know he loves me and he can separate such things, but I feel so inadequate! Men, what is the deal with big breasts? Every guy my age seems to have a thing for Lucy Pinder and the like anyway... it's like small breasts are not as good, since no guys prefer Kate Hudson or Shakira. I also watched a video in which Lucy Pinder was with other women and they were all going on and on about how you really can't blame men for looking at big breasts, that natural is better and if I remember correctly that bigger is better. Even if women think like that, then I can only imagine what men think.I know my boyfriend or any man I'm with for that matter will never run off with Lucy Pinder herself, but that doesn't mean that they don't want something like that better, or how about if he actually meets a woman who looks like that one day? Why are bigger breasts better? I never hear of women afraid of their bfs or husbands leaving them for smaller breasted women. I know big breasts bring a whole different set of issues, but still the general notion seems to be that the bigger the breasts, the sexier they are! I only have A cups, and I just don't know how to love them, because I really don't feel sexy at all, I can't get cleavage, I can't give tit wanks, and they look like a teenager's! Since I'm tall and have wide hips I also feel disproportionate. Like I said I know my boyfriend loves me, but that doesn't make me feel any more secure when he looks at bustier women or when he wanks to pictures or videos of Pinder and co.! Makes me feel like I'd be perfect in his eyes if only I had such sized breasts!I know I should be grateful that I'm healthy and cancer free, and I am, but it's so hard to ignore body image issues when we're bombarded by images of the perfect body or the perfect breasts from every angle!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): No one has perfect breasts and pictures of glamour models are all airbrushed. Point is if you have had sex with him before and he has not looked at porn before hand you have no worries because he can get an erection over you :) hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): I've been married for 17 years. When I first met my husband he was dating a woman with very large breasts. He dumped her for me. BTW - I have small breasts.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 You've never heard of a woman fearing her husband leaving for smaller breasts (at least in those words), but I'm sure you've heard of men leaving for perkier beasts when their wives started to sag. Smaller ones don't cause chronic back pain, give you more options for bras than these DD and larger breasts do, let you occasionally walk around without one, stay perky longer, and ya know what? I never saw the point of a "tit wank" anyway.
To quote a friend of mine, "Anything more than a handful is a waste."
As it happens, I've never dated a girl above a B cup. I find large breasts to be quite the turn off! So what you call "perfect breasts" are what I consider unappealing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): I feel the same thing with my hb... I know him will kill for big breast..I would like to be the most beautiful woman for his eyes, but I don't feel like this since he is crazy for big breasts and I have small ones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): Not all men love, prefer, or want a woman with large breast. If he does it's not the personality he is attracted to, so at least you know you will be getting genuine admiration. Large breasts are normally a result of being overweight, when they diet they go smaller. Also after 30 years, they start pointing downwards and are not nice to look at.
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reader, Chippymunk  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 I don't know about others, but I prefer smaller breasts to larger ones! For me, there are no breasts that can be "too small," but there are ones that can be too big and totally turn me off. I think guys "say" they prefer larger breasts only in front of other guys as a social masculinity behavior. Perhaps by admitting they like smaller breasts may imply a certain "gayness" and they want to avoid it. Don't worry, I know a lot of guys who like small breasts and hate large ones! If your bf truly loved you, he wouldn't care about your breasts size at all. If he did, then he's too shallow to spend the rest of your life with.
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