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writes:I have crush on a guy I work with but I can't work out how he feels about me. Firstly he is younger than I am, he is 18 and I am 21. We get on really well and have a lot in common, and when we work together time passes by so quickly. So we have been flirting a bit for the last couple of months and I could tell he was definitely feeling attracted to me. He would compliment me and tell me I was beautiful, but he never made a move, never text me or anything. Eventually we kissed, but it was at work. But he hasn't text or made any effort to ask me out since. He still talks to me like he used to. Its as though the kiss never happened and I am really confused. I'm not sure if its because he just wanted a kiss, or if he doesn't know that I'm interested. Help please, how do I get him to ask me out without chasing him or embarassing myself because I have to work with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): Hmm, you've got quite the problem, he sounds like a complicated male, they don't come around very often!I'd say he's just young and immature, but I doubt it. He's giving you certain signs... I really have no idea on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSean,
Thanks for advice, but I've already asked him why he didn't text after we kissed (he said he did but it was work-related so I didn't count it, plus after I text him back about it he didn't make any effort to say anything else, like, "and how are you" or anything)
Also a mutual friend hinted that I wanted to be asked out.
Furthermore I hinted that I wanted to be asked out, but for some reason its like he almost took it like I was joking or something.
What the hell is his deal, is he just really bad at reading the situation or is it because he is young and immature??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): make sure that he knows that you're interested! he should already know by now, by what you're describing, but you wanna go out with him? ask him. you kissed?! i mean cmon of course he likes you back, but you did say he acts asif the kiss never happened? possibly he chickened out and is scared, (possibly) for what ever reason, maybe because youre older, but seriously, from what you;ve said, you should just get to asking him out.
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reader, Hisgurl4eva31610 +, writes (30 January 2011):
Hey my name is amber. Me and my boyfriend had been together for a while now. The advice that I can give u is to give him small hints like Text him all the time and ask him if he wants to go to lunch. Most guys think that the girls have to chase them and then the girls think the guys have to chase them so I would just give him little hints that you like him
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