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writes:First some Backround. There's this girl who is everything any guy could ask for. she is the smartest person in my school(and thats saying something) she is drop dead gorgeous, she is the funniest girl I know. She is also so nice and has a great personality. Now I've known her since 6th grade I'm now in 8th and the first two years I've known her I never talked to her although i had a crush on her since I met her in 6th grade. We weren't friends until we started 8th grade I see her often since we have all of our classes together and recently I can't get her out of my mind and my small crush has turned into genuine love for her. She even offered me to join her group for a class project when my friends had too many people in their group. The next day she acknowledged me as a friend after two years I finally got a chance. she gave me a nickname that I like and I think it shows I mean something to her since she hasn't done this for anyone else I know. Nobody knows that I like her I haven't told any of my friends or even my sister(who I tell everything). I haven't had a gf since summer vacation I'm not afraid to ask her out or even of rejection. I'm just scared of what other people will think of me if I get rejected. On a handsome scale of 1-10 ten being the highest on a good day I'm an 8.5. All of my past girlfriends(which is about 4) have asked me out so I have no experience asking out girls Even if she liked me she wouldn't come to me so I have to make the first move. My other gfs either came to me since they were outspoken or had a friend do it. She is a little shy so I must make a move. ALL GIRLS WHO READ THIS PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION. when you were 14 how would you want a guy to ask you out because I really don't know how to do this. All answers are appreciated.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (30 January 2011):
 time u asked a girl out.
she is such a nice girl so she expects the guy to make the move,AS HE IS SUPPOSED TO!
so go ahead.
call her to see how shes doing
and proceed to ask if she'd like to meet ya for lunch or dinner after the project.
:)
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reader, just a female  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 heya
lets see, when i was 14 all i ever wanted was guy to come up to me in person and ask me out, because when your little friend comes up and says "hey you know xyz, yeah he likes you and wants to go out with you" well when they say that, a girl can never be certain that its the truth, and if this girl your talking about is a little bit shy then she certainly doesnt want to embaressed by someone playing a joke on her about the person she likes...if she like you. so i would say man up..:) and go ask that girl out
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 January 2011):
 It shouldn't matter what other people will think of you when you get rejected..EVERYONE gets rejected at some point in their life. Whether it's by the opposite sex, a job, choice school for college, etc.
Let's see if I can think back that far...When I was your age, I had my friends do the dirty work. You know, one of my friends goes and tells my crush's friend that I like him. When really it's all nonsense, and you should just cut out your friends being made to play Cupid and just go for the gold yourself. In other words, I would have preferred it if the guy directly asked me out. Most girls your age, (from what I have read on DC) are way too shy to do it themselves and also are scared of rejection.
No worries buddy. I highly doubt she will reject you.
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