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writes:Ok, the question is simple enough and i'm really nervous about it. Does kissing like (getting off) come naturally?i get put off going out with boys because of this. i'm really self-conscious my first kiss will go wrong or something. But like i mean how do you do it, is it natural or do you have to learn?i need as many answers as possible because it's ruining my love life because it makes me too nervous to go out with boys. Helppp.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): kissing just comes natrually just be yourself and it will come natrually the more you worry the worse it will be hope this helps.
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reader, auntieloulou +, writes (29 January 2011):
 i agree with monksdabomb, it comes naturally. in the moment you know what to do. i had my first kiss at 16 and i was so so so nervous about kissing a guy, it seemed really difficult to do! practice on your pillow or in a mirror, it sounds silly but it helps! dont use too much tongue, let the guy lead when it comes to that. it should be your lips slowly touching, opening together, and if he slips his tongue in then you just massage your tongue on his tongue. it sounds weird and it is but in the moment it happens you just get it. when i had my first kiss i kissed the guy loads after, i could not believe how easy it was and what a big deal i had made of it!
good luck!
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (29 January 2011):
Stop panicking.... You know that saying practice makes perfect, well that is exactly what you need to do... practice! I remember being your age and my friend asking me the same question... I hadn't got a clue to be honest because at 13 I had never kissed a guy .. but I just said to her, practice on your hand.. don't be full on with hard lips, be nice and gentle... and do you know what, it has worked for me...well so I am told! ha ha..
However, if you do meet a guy that appears experienced in the kissing depart, you will find yourself following his motions with your lips too and before you know it you have a nice rhythm going on between you.
Good luck!
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 As someone who is 27 years old and basically had her first kiss in about 13 years, I can tell you it just comes naturally. I was like you, wondering what I should do, if there is something I SHOULD do, but when that moment comes, instinct just takes over. Just don't overthink it and enjoy.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (29 January 2011):
 Kissing doesn't just come naturally actually. It is a skill that must be studied and practiced in order to get really good. Instead of dreading the practice of it, pretend it's like your great hobby that you want to be really good at! Look up on the internet on how to become a great kisser, and then it's just practice, practice, practice.
Everyone starts out with zero experience, and don't put off going out with boys! They won't be judging your kissing, I promist you that. They'll be all self-conscious themselves, because there's a lot of pressure on a guy to be good and experienced.
Kissing is like dancing too. There's give and take, and it's not just you that makes a kiss good - it's the one you're kissing too. The best kisser in the world would have a hard time trying to kiss a guy who licks you like a dog. Blech.
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