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*issm83
writes:my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs on tv, girls with huge boobs. i was thinking about breast implants way before i was with him, i want them just little bigger and more "perfect looking. i also have a lot of stretch marks on my belly and i still get self cautious about them. he said he loves them and you can barely see them. my question is...Are men really ok with small in perfect breasts.. stretchmarks ?or they just say it to make us feel better.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 hi
different men like different sizes. you need to be with a man who likes YOUR size. some men HATE implants though, coz they although nice to look at but they don't feel like breasts (coz they are not breast tissue!) and the thought of a foreign object inserted under the skin grosses them out! so think VERY carefully about this!
your size sounds ok! maybe you just need to get used to your new size coz you had got used to looking down and seeing bigger ones?!
xx
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reader, missm83 +, writes (30 January 2011):
missm83 is verified as being by the original poster of the question To: anonymous...Im sorry if I made you feel worse :( I didnt mean to. To me, mine are small because I was a full D before I lost weight.
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reader, missm83 +, writes (30 January 2011):
missm83 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i do accept my body for what it is. and the breast implant i wanted for myself no one else, but i think in someway the will change who i am. so no fake titis for me hehehe... i think im pretty proportionate..im 5'5 125lbs.. 34b, size 5(i got big hips )small but cute butt ;). ...
i have never shown him what i looked like before i lost weight, maybe i should...
thank you all for great response :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): This question actually infuriates me. 34b's are not small! I have 32A breasts. Just imagine how it makes people who actually do have small breasts feel when you call your perfectly normal sized breasts small.
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reader, Denizli  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 How did u even lose that much weight? WOW! Congrats!
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reader, Ignacio ramos +, writes (30 January 2011):
I love women with small breasts who im i to judge its funny when thir small we call them titis when ther big we call them titzzilas titancs its sad when they get older they sink
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): When a man loves you and he is aroused, it's like he has photoshop inside his eyes. :)
Don't worry so much. If he appreciated you even when you didn't like your own body, he's sticking around for something. Why would he be turned off by the small breasts and strech marks.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 January 2011):
 Most of us just love em all! Your sound very nice, and I'm sure your BF loves them.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (30 January 2011):
 If you get breats implants, get them for you, and not for him. I myself like breasts on the smaller side, but to each their own.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): There are men who are turned off by large breasts, some like them, and some don't care. I like small ones. Big nipples, small, firm boobies. 99.9% of men will love them.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (30 January 2011):
 I'm a fan of smaller ones. Less sagging, more perky, better options for bras, the ability to occasionally go without a bra, and YES I care that it means less back pain for her! To quote a friend, "Anything more than a handful is a waste." Sure you'd turn more heads with big ones, but that wouldn't do ANYTHING to strengthen any particular relationship (quite the contrary if jealousy ever becomes an issue).
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reader, dannn +, writes (30 January 2011):
Being a man, I can only offer my single opinion, but it is from the man's perspective nonetheless. Men do notice stretch marks, but that's usually not an issue, think of it as you having a mole or something, it's just the way it is, the fact that you've lost so much weight is amazing! (congrats) I think any guy wouldn't even be fazed by them, would just realize that's you and part of what makes you sexy.As for the boobs, I personally like things to be in proportion (so small is usually nice!) and for most guys I know it's less to do with size and more to do with shape. He probably mentions other girls big breasts because they're more easy to comment on (do you ever hear someone comment on how average someone's boobs are?) the fact that he tells you they're perfect shows that he thinks they're keepers. Guys don't always consider things like saying "small" will offend you, I mentioned that my girlfriend's boobs have gotten bigger and that they "sag" down nicely. And yikes! Did I ever get in trouble for that one (supposedly "sag" is not a sexy term). Don't beat yourself up over it, the dude sounds like a great guy and I'm sure he'd like you better the way you are rather than having you try and change yourself for him.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (30 January 2011):
Are women ok with small perfect penises?You can only speak for yourself. I can tell you I am ok with small breasts. But every one has their own preferences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): I prefer smaller boobs personally. It all depends on the man...not everyone's the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): Men don't care if you have giant boobs and stretchmarks, or if you have little boobs and stretchmarks. And he wouldn't say that he liked your boobs and stretchmarks if he didn't. Trust me, my boyfriend says that my boobs are beautiful every time we have sex, so don't worry.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 January 2011):
If you want the truth, men don't notice stretch marks. When the woman we love is in front of us naked, we don't stand there analysing here.
As for boobs, every man to his own. Not all men like big boobs, not all men like small boobs. But boobs aren't as important as women think. If they were, then a man who loved boobs would go for a woman with boobs.
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