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writes:So my boyfriend and I went out for a year, and we broke up two weeks ago because we just didn't have much to talk about anymore. He's been flirting with a few girls an awful lot, especially with one girl who is a complete slut, and it just makes me feel so shitty. I mean, it's only been two weeks and we went out for a year!He's the kind of person who just swallows up whatever happens and moves on quickly, but wouldn't you think that after dating someone for a year and really caring about them that it would take longer than two weeks to move on?Thanks... x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): look at it this way,at least you know what type of person you was with now,and maybe its happened to make you move on.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (29 January 2011):
Because he is being smart. It is a waste of time to wallow over the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): It probably means one of two things... one is like what CJH said, that some people get really flirty when they get out of a relationship because they feel like they have something to prove...The other is that he may have felt the relationship was over for awhile and it just took you guys time to officially end it. When I was dating my ex, I knew it was over in early October, and we fought, but he was convinced that we could work things out, so it took me until late November to actually, officially break up with him. I started seeing someone new only a few weeks later because I had checked out of the relationship over a month before he did...So, maybe he knew it wasn't going to work out and already "felt single" before he really was...Good luck to you and I hope you move on at the pace that works for you.
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reader, djskits +, writes (29 January 2011):
hey girli feel the same way as you do right now. iwas with my girl for 4 years and she went away abroad, 3months later i find out she wants to go on a break but the real reason was cause she foind someone else and was also dating him..she tried keeeping it away from me but i found out..it hurts alot..i still till today moved on i still feel the pain and i wanna get back with her badly..i dont understand how she cud move on so quikcly after 4 years...maybe he wasnt the one for you or maybe he just trying to explore himself..but trust me do not get to my stage..do not break down move on quickly aswell...#hope u take care of yourself...easy..
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reader, CJH  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 Stop worrying about him and think about yourself.
Were all different, some people NEED to get flirty to validate themselves in a way, especially after a break up.
The one thing you need to remember in this and future relationship endings is to focus on what you need and want.
It didnt work with the ex, hes history so let him do whatever he needs to do.
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