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writes:Hello everyone !First i just wanna say i love this site ! It's great to hear other people's opinions.Ok, so I've been dating a guy for like 2 months already, it all went great first weeks, then I kind of got bored and we are verryyy different.I like going to clubs, partying, socializing.He is more like a chilling guy, he prefers drinking a beer with this guys or play guitar.Well I say he's the nicest guy i ever met, he always treats me so right,better than any of my ex-boyfriends did(like driving me home at every hour, holding my hand in public, kissing me in public and telling me how much he loves me,cuddle with me and stuff).The thing is that, before dating him i used to hang out with dudes that were a bit more fun.But with him i can't do much stuff together.And i guess that's what's pissing me off. :(I have no idea what to do, it's getting me so confused, i tried breaking up with him and remain friends it was okay with me,but we are seeing each other almost every day at school and i couldn't let him suffer so much so we turned back on being together.He loves me alot, i love him too but i guess that's not enough. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): I was having the same problem with my boyfriend...I was bored one day and we had nothing to talk about, nothing to do(well nothing that he and I could decide on), so ijust told him that I am bored and that he needs to bend a little with me, like I do for him...Yea it hurt him a little for me to say that, but now he understands completly, and has changed, now we have been going out for 9 months and every weekend is different and fun!!! Good Luck!!!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 Hmmm, it's seems you two are opposites I understand opposites attract, but at times it doesn't work because both parties are just too opposite. He seems like a quality boyfriend, but he's not as fun as you would like him to be. There's really no changing that, because that's just who he is. I suggest you break it off for good, don't have pity for him, he will be fine. Then remain just friends.
Proceed to find a guy that can keep up with you when it comes to having fun.
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