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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I used to be friends with this guy at school but he moved schools, we never saw each other again. Me and my friend(who also used to know him) bumped into him in our local town and we started chatting and he exchanged numbers with both of us. A couple of weeks later my friend told me she had been on a date with him and they were now in a relationship,this made me feel a bit upset as i liked him too.They split up a couple of months later,i asked her why they split up and she said because he liked you.About a week later we started talking online again he wanted to meet up but i told him it would only be as friends because he had only just split up from my friend.We got on really well and went out together more,he cooked me a meal and we even met each others parents this was over a period of 3 weeks.He kept asking me to be more than friends but i wouldnt as i didnt want to upset my friend as she was upset over the breakup.One day he asked me to his house and we watched a film together i couldnt help it anymore we kissed but nothing was said about being in a relationship,he walked me home and we hugged goodbye but that was it. I didnt hear from him after that,we used to speak loads online and he always spoke first but i was the one who had to start the conversation this time.I havent seen him for 3 weeks or spoken to him in 2 weeks.Should i ask him whether iv done anything wrong or if he likes me anymore?thing is im really shy and dont want to seem pushy or stupid.If i dont im guessing we wont see each other anymore.what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): sweet heart, i think that you should ask him whats wrong. i know it will be hard but if you really want to see him and have him stay in your life, you just gotta muster up the courage and go for it. i hope this helps
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