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writes:Emergency questionI accidentally came across a movie on my boyfriend's laptop, he was having sex with another another woman from what i saw i won't call it love making. I don't know if my boyfriend intentionally recorded that act but Im sure that woman doesn't know about it.from their conversion it wasn't their first time they even discussed me, things I don't want to talk about my God which means the other woman knows of me and is very happy to be having sex with my boyfriend? I confronted my boyfriend and told him he can sleep with all the women for all I care but never ever to discuss me with them he was so much ashamed and angry too I really love him and don't want to quit because of this, but I'm also finding it very difficult to have him in bed please advise me I don't intend leaving him for her. I'm thinking of moving out thoughI don't know the matter with me but I watched that movie over and over again laughing but I feel so hurt about it after confronting him. I want to hurt that woman's feelings by letting her know of the video but I don't know how. she said she will have sex with my boyfriend even if he gets married.How can I stop her?But why will a man video his sex act with someone he is cheating with?please advise me I'm hurting now please
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 To answer your question - men seem to get a kick out of seeing themselves having sex with a woman. FOr all you know, he's recorded himself havings sex with you as well.
If you're considering staying with this man, I hope you're ready to deal with the notoriety of being an amateur porn star. It can be fun (usually is for me) but it's not a good idea.
And yes, the STD's.
Wake up!
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reader, SANNAH  +, writes (16 February 2011):
Dump that man.He is cruel uncaring and he doesn`t deserve your love..Dont waste anymore time on him..Be strong and walk away and destroy that offensive videotape..
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Why? Because he's an idiot with no respect for you. Have fun getting all sorts of STD's from this jerk. I recommend you get yourself some self respect!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Why the hell are you even considering staying with this man? Are you insane?
Not only does he admit to cheating and basically saying he can do what he likes, you let him!
Do you have that little self worth? Aren't you worried about STDs? What if he gets one of these girls pregnant?
Seriously, wake up and ditch him.
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reader, TOXiCLOVE +, writes (15 February 2011):
GIRL!!! this guy does not LOVE you!!! If he is out saying he can fuck any girl he wants then he has no care for your feelings!!! Especially video taping it! Girl, don't you see how messed up this is? you got to love yourself more than that!!! You deserve a guy who is crazy about you and treats you like a princess! A guy who you corrupt his mind ALL day to where he won't even notice all the other girls.. How bad are you going to hurt when he leaves you one day because he found someone better? Its NO fun at all an it hurts like a bitch! Get a guy who is gonna be faithful and be there for you!!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 It is very hard to unintentionally video yourself having sex.
If he has video'd then he has likely also video'd you.
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