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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:oh my god what is wrong with me? i've been really down the past YEAR because the guy i liked dumped me and i could not get over him. at all. suddenly in the space of two months, we're back on track. we've been texting virtually everyday and i've seen him quite a lot and he's just asked me out again. i've been waiting for this for nine months and at first i thought i was so happy. but suddenly that feeling has just gone. i think it's because i'm nervous because i'm worried he'll dump me again. that was the worst pain i've ever felt. i really badly want someone to say 'no thats not it, its something else' but maybe i'm being foolish. when i'm with him the attraction comes straight back though. he says he wants to kiss me and its fine if i think about it when i'm not with him but when i'm with him and i think about it, it makes me want to run. not because i'm not attracted to him, i'm just terrified i would kiss him wrong and it would make it awkward. okay and finally, we have so much to talk about when we're texting. we agree on so many levels about everything but when i'm with him i run out of the things to say because the pressure of trying to think of things gets to me. i love him so much so why do i panic like this? don't tell me to leave him because i can't do that to him. and i think its something i would instantly regret because i do have very very very strong attachments to him and i feel very strongly about him. help anyone? please?
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