A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Alright so i dated this girl who at the beginning i could tell had some problems but, i really didn't think any of it. When this girl smiled she light up the classroom and me being the class clown i was able to attract her attention. I got to know her for a month and she seemed like an all around nice girl. I dated her for a month i treated her like a princess and she would always tell me that i treated her the best she has ever been treated. I told her she could talk to whoever, whenever. I could honestly give to shits as long as she was happy. So i asked her out two days after her bday. She was so happy and said yes. I didn't talk to any girls while i dated her i had eyes for her. I was a complete gentleman and she wasn't used to that. When we broke up it was messy i didn't talk to her cuz she said she needed space i called her but then realized she does need space. I gave her five days and then i came back because my head was clear. I wanted to give this girl the world. The day after we broke up i guess she hung with her ex. Then when i saw her two days later because we got to college we connected eyes and her head went straight down. She sat there texting i guess she was throwing up after she ate and was crying all the time. I asked her why did u do it. Then we tried it and there was this new guy i didn't think anything of it at the time. I just thought she was gonna give me a second chance. Then some ridiculous stuff happend and i found out there was a picture of her kissing him and i flipped. I did digging and everyone told me he was a player and i don't like the ones i care about to get hurt. So i told her she showed him my video he blocked me and i blocked her. She said she wanted nothing to do with me. i was stalking and the sad part was i found out from a friend. We orginally signed up for college classes the next semester and she rarely shows up. Im one of those kids that is the class clown and can get anyones attention because im confident. I also take care of myself and workout everyday. So 2 weeks later she sent me a text saying i know this is random but i hope ur doing well and i hope u know that i don't have a problem with u. I didn't respond in my head i was thinking u knew u were gonna lose me if we didn't get back together. Sad thing is my life is the gym this guy she is seeing is a scumbag and everyone has told me. I realize guys don't change and she need to realize that. Another sad thing is she walks through our college halls texting while i sit and chit chat with my friends i feel bad she has like no friends inside of school but, i also realize that is because she isn't open like i am. I don't know that this guy will fuck her over i mean why would a guy change for someone like her i don't know. All i know is that one day she will realize she has lost out on something good and she will want it back when its to late. Famous quote u don't realize what u have till its gone
View related questions:
broke up, get back together, her ex, kissing, player, stalking, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlet me give u a round down everytime we got in a fight i apologized. I would always apologize and we would go to bed. I would always tell her she was beautiful and make her feel special. I wouldn't talk to anyother girl while i was dating her. I put her as my number one priority and would put everything off till later. I would never get pissed of if she got sick and, couldn't come over i would just tell her to feel better. My close friend told me that i pretty much gave her my world. Im wondering if she will ever realize that i was something good and that she shouldn't have given up on our realtionship. I am moving and to be honest i wouldn't go back because i wouldn't want someone who wouldn't put me as a priority and not as an option and not be willing to give me what i gave her.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSad thing was I told her I didn't want to have sex with her till I could look her in the eyes and, tell her that I love her. She told me that I was too possesive and, that's why we couldn't be together. I laughed because I was like you could do whatever you want when we dated, I didn't give a fuck as long as you liked me. I'm to the point where I know if she comes back I won't take her back because history repeats itself, but that's only if she realizes what a mistake she made because she's expecting the next guy to treat her just as well if not better, and at the age we're at, guys are looking for one thing, sex, and not a commited relationship. I'm not gonna brag or anything but I take really good care of myself and have tons of friends like I go through my college and I know like half of the people.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): Personally I think she played you. To me it seems as though she screwed you over. You have every right to think and be assured of that. As long as you aren't still in love with her I would say ignore her. One day in the future if you connect properly again then maybe it should happen. But at least for now I would say, that ignoring her plea's for attention would be of paramount importance. Because at the end of the day she only wants you now, because you aren't around anymore. And yes the famous quote rings true again.
Hope this helps brah!
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Stay away from any girl that tells you "this is the best" I have ever been treated. This always bad news. The texted you because you mean something to her and she is knows you were a good guy. Don't fall into the trap. Keep your distance. It can be hard as hell, but just let somethings die.
...............................
|
