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writes:hi guys...i want some advice.theres this guy i love at college.i told him what i felt for him on valentines day with a nice friendly quote.he said he feels the same.i love him a lot,and i want him,even though our likes and dislikes don't really match that much,but we have the same thinking.he's soo fair,and im tan,can i still love him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou guys may find it weird, but nobody knew that we were boyfriend and girlfriend. His parents found out and he was scolded. He messaged me that I am very sorry and we can never talk again. After that, my friend's message came and she said that I have a crush on my boyfriend (she didn't know he was my boyfriend) and I am his girlfriend. What should I do? I am totally heartbroken. He was my first boyfriend and this happened. Please please please give advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe cant get married yet,we've just had a new boyfriend girlfriend relationship.and besides we both are far too young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys soooo much.
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reader, ira3000000  +, writes (16 February 2011):
salam, if u think hes good for you and you love him get married , why not.
my husband is really dark and im very fair, so up to you
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (16 February 2011):
 My Mom is fair, my Dad is tan (well, darker than tan) - they've been happily married for 25 years. My fella is fair, and I'm tan - we've been happily together for 5.5 years, married for 1.5. Skin color has had nothing to do with the ultimate success of either of these relationships - it has had to do with the character, communication, love and respect that each member of the relationship showed to the other.
Skin color is as important as hair or eye color. Irrelevant. What counts is all on the inside. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): No, since he's so fair your darker skin will cause instant burns.
Really? You're just more tan than he is? If that's the biggest concern for you, then I don't know. But you already said you love him, so you should be capable of it
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (15 February 2011):
The way I was raised, the color of a man's skin does not matter. All that matters is happiness. If he makes you happy and you make him happy, that's all there is. That's the only thing that's important.
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