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writes:Ok so i have been dating this guy for only a few weeks. Everything has been lovely, but since this weekend his ex gf has been causing problems and sending him messages about her and other guys. Since this he has been really down. I don't know what to do or say, as it's only been a few weeks. I just feel that he probably is not over his ex and i'm wondering where that leaves me. He still seems into me and has not ignored me or anything. I just don't no how to deal with this really?
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reader, FloridaCatGirl  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 I would need more information to really give you good advice. How long did they date, how long ago did they break up, and who initiated the break up?
If she is sending him messages about her new romances, I would guess that she is trying to get him back, or at the very least trying to make him jealous. You said these messages are getting him down. Have you asked him if he still has feelings for his ex?
Don't give up so quickly. He may not have feelings for her, but the thought of his ex with another man, may not be something he is ready to hear. Stay positive and talk to him about the situation. Good luck!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (15 February 2011):
 He does sound like he is still into his ex, as her texts about her and other guys to him bothers him and it sounds like she is into him as well. With her feeling the need to inform him of her escapades. Have you talked to your bf about him being over his ex? If he wants you to leave him alone for a while so he can sort things out?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Perhaps you could wait it out a bit longer and see what happens next week. If this was a one-time off then it doesn't have to mean anything. Even if his ex isn't over him doesn't mean he isn't over her.
If this happens often you will have your answer next weekend. How long was he single before you got together?
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