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female
age
36-40,
*ost in the clouds
writes:Hello will someone please give me some advice. To begin with a few months ago my life was great after 4 years of being with a alcoholic man, who while being with I dropped out of high school three times, gained 45 pounds, lost many friends and family ties, I finally broke up with him lost weight got into college and moved in with a friend who turned out to be the love of my life. But with everything in my life it all fell apart, I dropped out of college and am now back in but on academic probation, I don't go into work as often and am now fighting more then ever with my bf. This always happens, I know its my fault, I jus gave up somewhere between living my perfect life. My question is how do i get out of this cycle? how do I get the umpth to be srtong and go to school, work and bAlence everything becuase i see it all slipping away but I cant physically do anything, its like theres a block. Thank you
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reader, ellie1963  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Wow, your self esteme is rock bottom you are concentrating on too many things at once you just need to focus on you at the mo. Do some nice things, go to lunch with girlfriends get your hair done, manicure, take time out to do what you like doing.
Make it up with your family this could be a huge part of your problem none of us like being disowned. It is never easy to eat humble pie but in a few weeks youll be glad you did.
Take it slowley and do one thing at a time youll never fix it all in one hit. But YOU have got to be top of the fix list and in everything you do at the moment think, 'how will this benefit me?'
Good luck hun x
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