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writes:I've never given head before. I really want to try it with my boyfriend because he keeps dropping hints to me. I also want to be able to pleasure him in a new way. So, do you guys have any tips or tricks? I would be really greatful. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): Oh, I know how you feel! I've recently tried it for the first time with my boyfriend a few months ago.
If he cares about you, he'll be patient while you learn and get used to the idea. The first time I gave my guy head, it wasn't amazing or anything but it's one of those things that you get better at the more comfortable you become.
In my case, the first time, I just had to go down and not think about it too much just to get used to it and get over that first time nerves. Second time was much easier. Try not to worry about it too much and just have fun trying something new! Good luck and I hope this helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): Just go for it. When i first met my boyfriend I was a virgin. I know I did a terrible job the first time I gave him head, but he made a comment a few months later about how great I've become, but how even though I was new at it when I first gave him head he still loved it just because I was the one doing it and he loved that I so eagerly wanted to get good at it to please him in that way. Giving him head is one of my favorite things to do... and I let him know that. It is a huge turn on for him just knowing that I'm enjoy giving him head.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Theres pretty much no such thing as a bad blowjob...as long as there's no teeth of course!
keep it wet, swirl your tongue around the tip of his penis and get your hands involved aswell.
Search the cosmo website, they always have plenty of tips and tricks :)
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reader, Hacienda +, writes (15 February 2011):
 just take your time, it should come naturally to you to know what to do. on your first go do not let your BF take control or hold your head, he should just let you explore yourself. using your tongue and lips are the main thing to do. avoid using your teeth until you are confident, other than that just try it and see what works for you. dont rush yourself take your time and above all else make sure you are 100% comfortable with it. this is a process of discovery and where people can give you tips on technique this will be something you will develop your own style with, if you would like some indepth advice on methods give me a message. good luck.
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reader, srhmr +, writes (15 February 2011):
1. Use lots of tongue, but don't be sloppy2. Make eye contact every now and then, but don't stare him down or give weird looks, aim for a seductive look3. Swallow. It can be a real put off when a girl either spits it out or washes her mouth out.4. Enjoy it, don't act like it's a chore. Guys love to see that you have fun doing it also.5. Use hands also, while you're sucking, you can jerk him off a little bit (or a lot) at the same time.6. The head is a very sensitive part for men, use that to your advantage. the right movement with your tongue on the head can make a guy crazy.7. Let his penis explore your mouth. Don't just keep it to the same monotonous area, there are cheeks to be filled and the back of your throat to be felt, which brings me to..8. Go as deep as you can without making yourself gag or choke. Though many say it's a big deal to be able to deep throat a guy, guys would rather see you not deep throat then see you deep throat and gag all over their penis. Not very attractive.9. Use your lips. You can either kiss or just rub his penis along your lips to give a little tingly feeling for both of you.10. Just have fun. Mix it up, try things with him, every guy is different. No matter how much advice people give you, any oral you give him is the oral he's going to love. He's will appreciate the fact that you're even doing it for him, so don't worry too much. You'll gradually find out what he likes the more you do it. As long as you don't cause him physical pain or gross him out in some way, haha what does he have to complain about? I'm sure anything you do for him with your tongue will drive him nuts and he'll love that you want to please him like that. Hope this helped at least a bit. Good luck!! :)
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