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male
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41-50,
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writes:On this site I just read about a guy whose wife annoys him in just about everything she does. I am in this situation, so I thought a complete change of life style would help my wife and I improve our relationship. We have been married 34 years. So we both investigated moving to a wild and wayout place like Mongolia. My wife could not go at the same time as I so SHE suggested I go early and get established. It sounded sensible at the time, so I went. Then 3 months later I get a letter saying "I'm not coming because we dont have a good relationship" and a hundred other reasons. So I decided to stay where I was. My wife still manages affairs at home, but even now 9 months later she still does stuff that annoys me intensely. Things like sending me home country government forms to fill in (except they are scanned in PDF, and I only have reader), Insurance payment forms that are a month over due and the insurance expires tonight midnight. I would pay that online except the bit of the form the has the vital reference number is missing. So ofcourse the insurance will lapse and I will have to go through the whole rig-marole to get the car reinsured, and a dozen items like that. How anoying those things are. Ofcours I dont say anything, because the "fight" wouldnt be worth the effort (she is almost never wrong, just ask her). How does one deal with this kind of annoying frustration?????
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 This is a prank.
One does not up and go live in Mongolia, you can only have a tourist visa for up to 90 days.Or, in theory, you could have a business visa, with a sponsor, ...but you won't , there 's no business to be done ( at least if you are a private and not a government agency ) :one third of all Mongols live in conditions of extreme poverty.
Unless you have a license as a gold mine , or urane mine, owner...Do you own a gold mine, OP ? In this case, don't worry about late payment surcharges... you can afford them.
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