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writes:My wife has a black guy friend that has been asking her to go out on a date. We have talked about it and I told her if she wanted to she could because she has always had a thing for black men. She is 57 and he is 30. Do you think I'm wrong to let her go? She is going out with him tonight. She said if I change my mind I need to tell her today. Are there any wives or husbands that can tell me what they think? Reply to this Question
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reader, kyfather +, writes (23 February 2011):
kyfather is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have been married for 22 years,have 3 kids all grown. To me happeness means more to me than anything. He did come over and we had dinner, he was a nice guy very big. I went to bed so they could be alone. My wife wanted to spend some time with him. I didn't sleep. I was listening to them they had sex for over an hour.
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reader, kyfather +, writes (23 February 2011):
kyfather is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes it does bother me, but I want her to be happy. She invited him over for dinner tobight he will be here soon,She is dressed very sexy. I never saw her dress like this,today I saw her with her top off and she has hickes all over her breasts.
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reader, kyfather +, writes (21 February 2011):
kyfather is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,you asked about our sex life well the older I get the less I want sex,and I have a hard time getting hard. I have tried meds but it don't help much. I amd 6.5 inches she told me her black boyfriend is 9.5 inches. She went to his house last night and when she came home she didn't have any under clothes on,She said he wanted to keep them. She didn't tell me they had sex but I know they did! I felt her pussy when she went to sleep. She still loves me she treats me better now than ever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): "She says he is her boyfriend."
What?!
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reader, kyfather +, writes (19 February 2011):
kyfather is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wanted to update what's going onMy wife has been out with A.She says he is her boyfriend.he took her shopping for new clothes and I like her new look.we get along better than ever. She is happy.
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reader, kyfather +, writes (16 February 2011):
kyfather is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe did go out with him last night,she was late getting home,I went to bed at 12 and was sleeping and she is still sleeping.I haven't got to talk to her but I will as soon as she gets up.I will let you know what she says. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): There is absolutely no way in hell that I would condone my partner going on a date with anyone else, of any race, gender, sexuality, haircolour, face shape, whatever!
And, to be honest, I'd be really hurt if he condoned me going on a date with anyone else too - I'd take it as a sign that he no longer valued my loyalty and commitment.
We all have fantasies. The point of a marriage is that we learn that there are some things more important than instant wish-fulfillment: like loyalty and commitment. If your love life lacks a spark, try to find it again between you. Don't look outside for the solution - that's the road to adultery and divorce.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 February 2011):
Of course it's wrong - she's your wife, not just some woman who can go out with other men. What happens when she sleeps with him (which will inevitably happen)? Tell her - now. It sounds as if she wants you to tell her not to go anyway, otherwise she wouldn't have suggested telling her today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): Hi let her go, she will love you more for it.
Just make sure you talk about it afterwards.
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reader, v3ng3 +, writes (16 February 2011):
Im not married, but If I was and my wife wanted to go on a date with someone else I would walk. But thats just my 2 cents.
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