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writes:First of all i wanted to say how come guys who obviously are interested dont make a move? I met this guy who was in the same club as me and at my college thats how we started talking. I was on facebook and he chatted me and we started talking then he gave me his number. He would text me then i started texting him.This went on for three weeks and he wouldnt make a move. So i asked him if any girl had caught his eye and he said that he wasnt looking since he was leaving soon. And then he asked me if any guy had caught my eye. I said yes but that i was confused about this guy hoping he would figure out i was talking about him. Do you think he did? why would he talk to me and flirt if hes not looking for a girl. But then he wouldnt text me anymore and when i would text him he text me back and seemed interested and he said i dont annoy him at all:). But the thing is he wouldnt text me i would have to text him so i just stopped completely since i thought he wasnt interested. Their was no contact. But when we would see eachother in person we would look at eachother but not say a word or smile. This is how it has been for a month. Why dosent he talk to me, but sometimes he likes my pics or statuses on facebook? I also want to include i texted him today wishing him a happy valentines day but he didnt respond, why not? This guy confuses me alot he looks at me when we see eacother at school but dosent say i word and sometimes i ignore him by looking away when he sees me because im nervous, is that bad?. One last thing he is leaving in 3 weeks should i still pursue him. Because i still want to see how things go between us and i dont want him to leave and not try at all. Please any advice thank you
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (15 February 2011):
 I have to say that playing tennis would be a much better pastime than the "game" you and he are playing!
You say he's going to be leaving in three weeks. How long will he be gone? If only for a few weeks or a month or two, why not invite him to have lunch with you - doesn't have to be anywhere expensive - and get to know him a bit?
You'd be well advised to keep it light and casual; not a good idea to hop into bed just yet; that can wait until he returns and the two of you have started going out on a regular basis for at least a month or two........
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Why hasn't he made a move? He's not looking since he's leaving soon was his answer. Just because he's chatting online with you doesn't mean he is interested in more than that. He's obviously not going to try so if you want something from him, the only way to get it is to go after him and hope he responds favorably. It's not an ideal situation and if you are to make all the moves, you'll most likely be on here again asking why he doesn't keep in touch long distance or how you can get him into a long distance relationship.
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