A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey, im engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. He treats me amazing and makes me feel even better. The sex is really good too. Before i met him i was a bit promicious but really settled down now. I had also been with a few girls and this is something that i continue to pursue with his blessing. However, i have been looking for girls more and more recently and he keeps calling me a lesbian. This is kind of rubbing off on me and although i love him and i love the sex, i would never be with another man after him :/ what does this make me? :( im only young and dont understand.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (10 April 2011):
You are young to be engaged and tied down, although that is your choice. It is normal to want to explore your sexuality and figure out who you are, although i think you need to decide if it is him you want or time to explore who you are, having both will not work forever.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): It's makes you open minded and fun loving. No one can label you (except you), as labels are either too inaccurate or have to do with feelings. You get to define yourself. If you want to say your bi, then you are. If you want to say your straight, but love sex with a girl then you're straight. He needs to QUIT calling you a lesbian, as you are NOT one, unless you grow tired of his shit and give up men all together.
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