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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I don't know. I think she likes me. Well long story short, she's been in my class for years before we got different classes. I changed a lot, physically and mentally and I really wasn't talking to her till near exams. We both are in the same college. She said I look good, cute and that 'It's really nice to know that there are guys like me.' And sweet. Though I just talk to her on messages. I am shy.She always pokes me on facebook and likes my pictures even though I really don't like her pics.I did suggest we should go out to hang out some time and she said yes. But I had one of my moments a week or so later, I said I am not comfortable messaging and that if she wants to talk, we can go out sometime. Bad move. But we still kept on poking each other and a day later I again messaged her for a while.So I told her I like her and would like to go out with her. She said she was in a relationship but yeah, I told her I just want to know her more then.But when I asked who she is in a relation with, she just say. So I am on a sinking boat right? Should I just leave talking to her now?She also said she'd like to know me more. Is she playing some sort of game or something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Sounds like she's a nice girl who wouldn't want to hurt anybody's feelings. She probably thinks it's ok to get to know you better as a friend, because she's already told you she's in a relationship so maybe she assumes you would automatically back off and want to know her better as a friend. If you can really manage that, great. If you think you won't be able to handle just being friends, better not get too close...
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