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GF is now dating my ex. I'm hurt and don't know how to handle it.

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Question - (9 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *overnotafighter writes:

i was going out with a guy for 8 months and we were very happy together, we had ups and downs but we always managed to work through them and i loved him and he had told me the same.

we broke up a month ago but now hes going out with one of my best friends. she knew i was really hurt about us breaking up and she was the one that helped me through it telling me he wasnt good enough for me called him names and said i can do better.

i was told lately that they have been meeting up since about two weeks after we had broke up, and now they're going out. i was kept totally in the dark about this, neither of them had the decency to tell me.

im so angry with both of them for keeping it a secret, im thinking now this was probably going on while we were going out.

i can never trust my "friend" again, and i want to do something to get back at both of them, but will that just make me as bad as both of them?

how can i move on from this, we'll always have to hang out around each other because we have the same friends?

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A male reader, radhey India +, writes (11 April 2011):

you have to leave them here itself

If you r very good girl and never went for anybody else while in relationship with that guy,then you deserve a more stable boy.

Try to slowly move away from them ,make new friends and learn to enjoy life without them

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