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*3puremage1
writes:In the past 6 years I couldn't sense too much happiness in my life but a lot of amusement instead. In academic, I am absolutely on the edge since I got a scholarship and accepted by the best state school in england. A lot of people at my age envy my success and told me I should appreciate the success that my talent has brought me. However, I could not feel a sense of happiness when I got these two valuable things.In sports, I am also outstanding. I enjoy playing rugby with my friends but after 6 years I am tired of it. Again I could not feel a sense of happiness from playing rugby. In friendships, I have many friends who likes me. So, I am quite popular. But somehow I like to be on my own most of my time. I go to town on my own; I sleep on my own even though I have a roommate since I am a boarder;I work on my own since I am much more effective in this way. In love, I am absolutely a failure. The last girl I tried to date screwed me up. I was always there for her no matter what happened to her. She has hurt me quite a few times already. For example, told all my things to her ex when she had promised me not to leak out a single word and now she said to me I scares her because I stares at her. I don't even know I always stares at her. But if she doesn't look at me how would she knows that I stare her??? Strangely, I started love the way it hurts. Some girls know my situation and they said I am a perfect guy and believes I deserve someone who loves me as much as I love her. However, I felt no matter how hard I tried; no matter no smart I am; no matter how clever I am; I won't able to do it.In conclusion, I think I have some psychological problems. Can anyone help me out?
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (11 April 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help.I really appreciate it.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (9 April 2011):
There is the intelligence and the emotional intelligence. And being intelligent doesn't warranties you will be emotionally intelligent. Maybe you have to train you soul a little and start by choosing a better girl to love.I will tell you what: you can fall in love with another girl. Because there is no such thing like the girl meant to be with you. There is a lot of girls out there which are perfectly right for you, and you are for them. You have to leave your girlfriend and start meeting other girls. So you can find a better right one.
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reader, justjess +, writes (9 April 2011):
 first thing... chill.
Forget about your ex, she isn't worth it so just try and move on from her. Your friends are right you deserve a great girl and I assure you, she is out there :) the hard part is finding her.
I know it may sound difficult but you just have to "forget" about girls, the more you think about the more stressed out you'll be. I speak from experience but I am happy that I have decided to stop stressing about boys and just be me for now.
You say you've lost interest in things, well thats normal after 6 years of doing the same thing, take some time for yourself and do something different.
Good Luck XD
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