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writes:Hi, okay, so I think that this guy might like me, but I really like him, so I'm worried that maybe my mind is playing tricks on me. I need other, third-party opinions on the matter please :)Here's why I think he likes me:-He stares at me A LOT.-He fixes his clothes/hair when he see me.-He sometimes walks very close to me as he passes by.-He sometimes looks like he wants to approach me, but then hesitates and doesn't.Alright, so that was all happening for like, a month, and then this past Thursday night, there was a benefit concert at my school to raise money for charity where I was going to be playing a song I wrote. He showed up, alone, and was hovering around where my friends and I were all night, glancing over at me, but never talking. I'm pretty sure I even caught him look me up and down at one point, and at the time, I thought he was looking at my shoes;) I'm sort of naive like that by nature. In hindsight, it might have been something else. And then I went up to play my song, and when I came back, he was still there, starring, looking like he wanted to say something but didn't. So then, he walked to the other side of the room, and about 10 minutes later I walked over there and walked by him, because he was by all of the treats and stuff, so I had to pass him to get a cookie:p Anywayssss, after I got the cookie, I walked over to another group of my friends, so not the spot I was in all night where he was hovering, and who comes to stand over by me, but him. He was making small talk with someone, but when they stopped talking, I was like, whatever I'm not doing this any more, so I turned to him and was like, "Hey, are you *his name*? Rumor has it you're going to play a song tonight." (because someone told me he might). And he blushed like crazy and smiled and said "No, I'll play next year." and so I was like, "Oh, that's cool. yeah, someone told me you were a musician." I then turned around, and he leaned into my ear (it was really loud though, so that's probably why) and he goes, "You were really great up there." I said thanks, and we chatted for a little bit about my gig experiences and stuff, and then the conversation died so I turned back to watch the band on stage. He leaned into my ear again, and asked me about the band, so I went to respond and he leaned in so I had to speak into his ear. We were so close to each other and I said something that was not even THAT funny and he laughed like it was. So thennnn, I turned back to the band, and he walked away, back over to where my friends (and I most of the night) were and where he was all night. I went back to my friends and they were all teasing me about talking to him because they know I really like him. Like, they were taking pictures on their phones and stuff (they were just being silly:p). Anyway, when the event ended, everyone was clearing out, most of my friends left, and it was just me, and two of my friends sitting and chatting. One of my teachers came over and we were talking a bit and he walked right over, smiling, but then kind of turned around and walked to the other side of the room. I didn't talk to him again that night, but as I was leaving, he as starring at me and smiling. I didn't see him after that, so that's how we left off.Sorry this ended up so long. But what do you guys think? Am I over-analyzing?;p
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): I have a science teacher who was EXACTLY like everything that you told me. I also do sometime whether it's just my crazy head or if it's really true. I didn't tell anyone about this problem for over 1 1/2 years because i was afraid to be wrong, shame our school, make the teacher look bad, or just stress everybody out. You have to talk to your teacher, tell the principle, or anyone that you trust immediately. make sure you have total confidence and test experiments on him to see the results to support your story.
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reader, themagentskie  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 You need to interact more with him. Attempt to become his friend.
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reader, Littlescorpio  +, writes (10 April 2011):
HiYep I'm 95 percent sure he likes you! Try starring at him and waiting for him to look at you and then smiling! It might make him a bit more comfortable at approaching you next time. So you're not over analyzing it! He likes you! It's good that you're a muso as well- there are so many good ways to interact with people through music ;) ' hidden meanings in songs' heh heh Haha I kid, I kid.Anyway, pm me if you want any more advice on the situation. I'd be happy to help! :) Goodluck!
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reader, cupidus +, writes (10 April 2011):
 Long postShort AnswerHUGE LIKE
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 Yeah it sounds like the feelings are mutual. =)Now you have talked once, you should try to spark up another conversation then try to as often as you see him. Don't be afraid to talk to him 'cause he is probably quite nervous and waiting for you to talk first =)Hope this helps =)
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