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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. We've been through a lot of drama with his ex. at the start of our relationship because it was a messy break up for them, but we got through it. Now, there's this other girl who he was friends with before him and I met. She completely ignores me, even when he and I walk in together to the same place, she will only greet him and talk to him. I simply don't exist to her. I pointed this out to him, and he agrees it's strange and rude. He told me he decided to limit his friendship with her, and he barely speaks to her. But, every time he's at an event or gathering when I'm not with him, they spend quite some time together. He tells me when he's seen her, but he says he's just polite and says hello. But something tells me that's not entirely the truth. He knows how I feel about her. I simply don't like her because she's rude and a flirt. I don't like how he's still friends with her, and I don't want to tell him what to do.What do I do about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Tell him! If he cares for you enough, he will stop speaking to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): To be honest i will tell him if he really cares about you that he will dismiss their friendship while you both are present. And see if he does it while all three of you are in each others present if not then that tells you that he still wants that connection. Hope this helps
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