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writes:Ok so I'm 15 and I masturbate. I know it is perfectly naturally but I can't help but feel awful afterwards. I don't want to but I can't help it sometimes. Is it normal I know guys masturbate but is it normal for girls especially 15 year olds ? Also what can I do because sometimes I can't help myself but regret masturbating after, is this normal ? If I feel bad after should I stop myself and if so what can I do? Please help !! Reply to this Question
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reader, Minou  +, writes (9 April 2011):
Actually religiously its bad to do it. but i have heard its somehow good for the health. yes it is quite natural to do it at this age because it is this age that you became more curious about your own body and feel more attracted towards the opposed sex.
Well if you think by doing it, it is affecting you self respect and that you regret afterwards. Then i would advise you not to do it..and you know when this sudden urge of masturbating is starting to come up..you keep yourself busy with something rather more interesting to you.
Keep yourself around people as well..because then you won't really feel tempted to walk out of them and go and masturbate. If you are alone, the idea that okay its just a last time i'll do it might crop up
So better better keep yourself busied around people and with other things that you fancied example reading, watching tv, playing games,..
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (9 April 2011):
 Oh, the stories people used to tell you to spoil your pleasure - "you'll go blind", "rot in hell", "grow hair on your palms (boys)" - all sorts of rubbish like that.There is NO need to feel guilty: in fact, you are better off than boys. The clit is the only organ in your body whose SOLE purpose is to provide pleasure, so why not use it?
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reader, Magic_3  +, writes (9 April 2011):
There is absolutely nothing wrong with it I don't think!! But I get where you are coming from. I sometimes feel awful afterwards too but what's the harm? Isn't it better that you're doing it yourself instead of having several other people do it to you ?:)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 April 2011):
 You know it's fine for guys, so why shouldn't it be fine for girls? Girls get just as horny as guys do, no one NEEDS to masturbate, everyone does it for the same reasons, fun, horniness, boredom, etc... Most people masturbate, it's harmless, it puts you in a good mood (great mood), it makes you more in touch with your body, unless you're doing it multiple times a day and it's interfering with your life, it's not just fine, it's probably good for you! People may not talk about it, but almost everyone masturbates. Try not to feel guilty, there's absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. You're making yourself feel good by getting in touch with your own body. How could that possibly be bad? The only thing you should stop is feeling guilty.
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