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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just don't know who to talk to... I'm feeling horrendous right now... A year... a whole 12-14 months of waiting for the right person... we dated a fortnight... the best fortnight of my life... I've only ever had two girlfriends so I was waiting for something like this to happen for AGES...And because I was always single, the topic of me getting into a relationship of me trying to get into one is a HUGE topic among friends... So when I finally got with this new one, they all began gossiping and chattering about it...However, we're both virgins... and friends, hers and mine, asking whether we'd done the deed yet... ALL THE TIME...Friends had differing views on the subject, to the point HUGE arguments which turned to someone even telling my girlfriend she wasn't even good enough for me... Me and her stayed out of the whole thing, trying to not start a bigger argument... but the ridiculous childish carry-on got so out of hand she burst into tears and told me she'd had enough...And so here I am.... a relationship... destroyed by friends... Friends who are all utterly miserable at destroying something they all knew was so important to me.... my ex feels horrible too... and to be honest... I really don't blame her... and now I've received phone calls from friends with apologies....This whole situation is just ridiculous I want to crawl in a corner... what do I do? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): Give her some time like maybe two weeks. During that time you should sms her and ask her how she is feeling and that you are thinking about her. After a week you should call her and tell her how you regret how everything happened with your friends.If she really likes you she will understand how you feel. Someone needs to be mature about this situation and your friends and girlfriend dont seem to be acting with very much maturity if you dont mind me saying. If your girlfriend decides to reply to the sms, just respect her feelings and tell her you want to meet again. You have done nothing wrong and if your girlfriend does not decide to meet you then she is not worth your attention. I really hope it works for you.
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