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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have being in a relationship for good one year and during this year my guy has never a day giving me gift or money to take care of myself. I want to quit because he don't love me and if at all he did he would have spend for me a little. Please readers advise me should i quit or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): You don't need anyone else's money to look after yourself, you earn your own.
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reader, Partyboy123 +, writes (9 April 2011):
Hey,
Isn't his love enough?? Why does it have to be about money? If he loves you, and you love him, then you need to realize that the gifts and money do not really matter. Gifts are just something that some men do, and some do not.
Example:
for valentines day, you buy him a gift, he doesn't buy you one... but he spends the whole day with you and tells you he loves you a bunch of times, and it is all about you that day... he probably has financial problems, or doesn't know what to get you, or he is just not into the gift thing because it may seem weird to him.
I would NOT quit, but realize that if you love him and he loves you, the gifts won't really matter..
hope i helped
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male
reader, Partyboy123 +, writes (9 April 2011):
Hey,
Isn't his love enough?? Why does it have to be about money? If he loves you, and you love him, then you need to realize that the gifts and money do not really matter. Gifts are just something that some men do, and some do not.
Example:
for valentines day, you buy him a gift, he doesn't buy you one... but he spends the whole day with you and tells you he loves you a bunch of times, and it is all about you that day... he probably has financial problems, or doesn't know what to get you, or he is just not into the gift thing because it may seem weird to him.
I would NOT quit, but realize that if you love him and he loves you, the gifts won't really matter..
hope i helped
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female
reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (9 April 2011):
Ehh? does he pay for you when u go out? like dinner? or movies?
you shouldn't expect a guy to just "give you money"
He's not your dad. Nor your Boss. Nor your pimp.
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