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*otttmess
writes:So...I'm a senior in high school and a boyfriend was the last thing on my mind. When I first started dating my current boyfriend about three months ago I thought it was just a fling that would be over after graduation. The truth is our feelings for eachother are very serious, and we've showed eachother that we want to stay together but haven't talked about it. My plan is "whatever happens,happens" and to just talk about it when the time comes so I don't ruin what we have now. The thing is its so realistic for us to stay together because we are going to sister schools and live close to eachother. Our families get along so well(they even go out for drinks) and we love eachother...I just want to know anyones input on similar situations..please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, hotttmess +, writes (10 April 2011):
hotttmess is verified as being by the original poster of the question I completely get that..but the thing is we've both experienced a lot of what there is to. Living in south florida is a lot different then most places. We are exposed to clubbing at a young age(both of us have done it) we've both had multiple sex partners, we've both tried weed, (matter fact he used to sell but he stoped) and there are a lot of different things we both have done..not to mention both of us are pretty laidback with new experiences as long as it does not harm the other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): Only one I knew of just ended in a messy divorce. He cheated after 30+ years and divorced her (blind sided her) when the second kid went off to college. (they have 2, 1 year apart).Seems his lack of world experience got to him and he found a 28 year old who liked older men.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 It certainly isn't impossible. If you really love each other, I see no reason why it can't work out. Just be wary though, the reason why most relationships in high school end so quickly is because at your age you are still growing and changing, mentally I mean. Emotions will change and if this love isn't really what you think it is, it will only end in heartbreak for one of you. If you truly love each other, there is nothing to fear.I hope that helps.
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