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writes:I am black and my partner is white. I have seen some of the porn he usesand they have white women in them, and they all have very...pink, light skinned vagina's. Of course, as I am black, I am much darker down there and I feel insecure. Are white vagina's nicer looking? My partner has not complained, we do all kinds of sexual stuff, he even goes down on me, but Im not sure my 'bits' are as pretty as a white girls 'bits'. Help!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 I agree with all the other posters, plus I'd like to add :
your doubt can only exist if you have unilaterally decided that white skin is necessarily better than brown, pink nipples are better than dark etc.etc.
I am as white-and-pink as they come- yet I would not mind at all to switch body with Naomi Campbell or Halle Berry !
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): I am pretty sure the women in porn have real vagina's. But you seen one you have seen them all. Not to worry. As a guy I can tell you that we just want the one we are with. In case you are wondering this means you and yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Cinnamon bits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): There are no bits as pretty as the ones we are having congress with.A white guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): All 'bits' are awesome, no matter the race of the person or the colour of the 'bits'. We guys love 'bits' real ones. I have never once in my life compared anything in a porn movie to real women because they don't compare.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): simple answer: your vagina is just as good, if not better, than any body else's because its attached to you. more complex one: everyone has different preferences in terms of how things look. In general, I have never found that race difference makes things look better or worse down there but that doesn't mean that everyone shares my personal opinion. I do think that a vast majority of the population don't find one kind more attractive than another, specifically YOUR PARTNER because he is sleeping with you. don't fret. we all get vag-conscious, personally I think my lips are too fat. But its fine, you're not the one who has to lick it, I'm sure he thinks its wonderful.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 April 2011):
 What is it about porn that makes all women feel insecure about their vulvas? Your bits are way prettier than those women in porn because they're real! Don't think even for a second that those women in porn can compete with you. Don't even give it a second though, because I'm sure he hasn't other than, "yay my girlfriend is naked!"
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): LOL are you serious, look go watch a porn so you can see a white vagina, there is nothing as a nice or ugly vagina if your BF is turned on by you and gets HORNY its cuz of YOU got it? be proud of your race man!- a white girl
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