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writes: Im 15 and I've never really had a proper boyfriend so I'm quite inexperienced. Recently I've been on a couple of dates with this guy who is also 15 but a lot more experienced than me. So last night I was meeting this guy at his house before we went out. We started cuddling and he tried to start making out. I was ready but as I'm inexperienced I hadn't a clue what to do. He had to guide me the whole way through like how to kiss him where to touch him (nothing sexually at all). Eventually he stopped and said maybe that was enough for now. After we had gone out he said that he really liked me but I got the feeling that maybe I've disappointed him cus he had to guide me the whole time. Does anyone have any advice so next time won't be as bad as last night ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): If you couldn't naturally kiss this guy, then I think that means you shouldnt see him. Believe me experience doesnt matter when it comes to kissing at that age. If it was more of an instructional thing, then thats not feelings in play, thats caused by no chemistry.
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reader, audrey millicent  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 hello miss 15 your experience in sexual affairs should not be your headache firstly you are not grown enough to be indulging in such act please consider yourself young and quit this affair.he wil only deceive you b'cos you are young and jilt you. study your books let them be your boyfriend and trust me you wil get to the top thank you.
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (9 April 2011):
just close your eyes and let nature take over! kissing is easy if men can do it, you can to...Its the closeness and the meeting of lips on lips that is go good about it. Just relax and it will be as natural as falling off a log.I'd just kiss if I were you at this stage, to build up your confidence, you can explore the rest of his body later with your kisses.
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reader, macdubh712  +, writes (9 April 2011):
Hrm...well, for one, those types of "things" take practice. Two, I believe that those types of "things" are mental and what I mean by that is, inexperience = anxiety. Anxiety = inhibitions. Less anxiety = less inhibitions which = more fun and improvement. Three, your boyfriend should be more patient with you considering your inexperience. Four, be careful at your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Honestly I think if u just relax and let it happen it will come to u. Everybody in the world has had there first kiss be a little awkward. I don't think it will be that bad the 2nd time. Just try to remember what he showed u and try not think so much while kissing him that will just make it worst.
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