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writes:I want to make this short. I dated this girl for a short period of time i played the whole chase game with her. I cared about her always went out of my way for her never abused her or made her feel bad about herself. I treated her the best i have ever treated a girl cuz i cared about her alot. We went through a rough patch one night and that brought our relationship to an end. We then got back and she was talking to this guy and i didn't care about him she wasn't mine so she could do what she wanted i just wanted to get her back. I said some stuff after i saw a photo of them and she kissed him and i flipped cuz she told me there was "nothing there and they have always been friends nothing more." I dug and said shit and then i just told her she told me to not talk to her. Then one day she texts me i don't respond. I felt bad about the letter so i hand write an apology letter and when i give it to her she had the biggest smile ever. She texted me saying she accepted my apology and she was sorry for her part. She told me that im a good hearted person. with a smile on the end of it. Should i try and talk to her and see if shes open to talk with me. Then should i see if she still has feelings cuz that smile she gave me was like when a child gets something they wanted for christmass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut see theirs a problem she has a boyfriend that she says she is happy with. I don't know if she truly is but i hear that you should talk about the relationship when you first talk to them. just make them laugh and smile. Expecially if you been out of their life for a couple months its like you don't realize how good you have something till it was gone and came back.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (10 April 2011):
Talking is always the smarter thing to do. Not always an easy one. But unless you talk to her there's no way to know if she's free and willing to start dating you again.You have to open you heart to her and hope she won't hurt you. When you open your heart you can be hurt, but even if she doesn't want to date you she doesn't need to hurt you. And in the end, if you open your heart to her, you will have better chances.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionProbably is she is dating him and i don't know if that smile means she still has feelings. So i guess im gonna try and talk to her and see if shes open if not im moving on. Does that sound like the smart thing. I don't know her understanding for breaking up seeing as the reason didn't seem legitamate, but i guess we will see.
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (9 April 2011):
Why not? You have nothing to loose. But you have to be sure you already forgiven her about the other other guy issue. If you didn't you will end up fighting over that sooner or later.
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