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male
age
30-35,
*londyking
writes:So essentially this girl that I've first started talking to about 3 weeks ago and I both realized and admitted that we both like each-other alot, and since we first went out on a date, we've talked till at least 11pm everyday since, we talk about everything, what we love in life, what we don't like, our goals, our regrets, etc. She's a real person, and she's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and up until about a week ago, her parents didn't want to hear about her with another guy because of her past, and then she talked to them and they said to wait until mid may (after prom, since one of her best guy friends asked her to it as friends)... which showed me she really cares and is invested to actually bring it up to her parents.Since then, we've essentially been boyfriend/girlfriend without trying to make it a showcase to everyone, we hang out all the time for lunch, we have a free period together just so we can see each other before then, and we've hung out some more, went biking with her friend and I brought them to a awesome hill with an amazing view and we first held hands, etc.But because of her past with boyfriends, which she has been completely honest with me about, she wants to try and have us take it slow, which I have no problem with anyway... plus, waiting until May kinda forces upon us. But with the fact that we are this close already and the fact that I've truly realized that I do love her, I don't know if I can wait to move our relationship further... I have this feeling building up inside that I need her to know that I do love her. The hardest part of everything is that she's gone until Monday for a school thing and we've barely been able to talk, and when we do talk I have to hold back saying that I love her because I'm afraid of scaring her off.I guess my question is: All things considered should I wait to tell her or should I say it now?
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 Wait, instead just say, "you're important to me, if you need me I'll be there"The same thing, only less and at the same time more.
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