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writes:My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, and we have been together for about two months. We live in NYC.We started kissing and making out a while ago and now its almost the only thing we do.I spend a lot of time in his room, especially at night, and while we would never ever ever have sex, we have become very physically close, for example i have squeezed his naked behind and he has touched my breasts.The other day, we both took off our shirts(My bra was still on) and made out furiouslyAre we way too physically intimate too fast?What could this lead to?Thanks!
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (9 April 2011):
"Are we way too physically intimate too fast?"Yes, way too fast for your age."What could this lead to?"Sex, of course. No matter how sure you are you don't want to have sex yet. If you go on like this you will end up getting laid.I guess you should start going out to dinner, to the mall, to the movies. Doing something else than making out.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 April 2011):
 This isn't going that fast if you've been dating 2 months, but you have to decide how far you want it to go and set your boundaries. For instance, do you want to wait until you're in love to do sexual things? If it progresses to hand jobs/fingering is that something you're comfortable with? You just need to think about it ahead of time. As long as whatever you do is something you want and won't regret, there's no reason not to do it. Just as a reminder though, you legally cannot have sex until he's 16 (18 in some states, check for your own) as it is statutory rape.
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reader, BriBri +, writes (9 April 2011):
Its true you need to slow down burn the candle to fast it runs out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): It will mostly lead to sex. Not guaranteed though. Perhaps he is unusually forward thinking.
But if you spend all your time necking each other than what you have is NOT a relationship. It's simply Friends With Benefits.
Flynn 24
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