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writes:I feel like somethings missing. I don't know what it is, but I have an idea. It's just that every time I see couples, I wish I could have a girlfriend. I also am confused. I mean, I'm sure I'm Bi Sexual, but the sexual thought of guys is just... repulsing. Not to be rude to guys. I think this has something to do with my perverted ex telling me he wants to have sex with me. Maybe not. But can someone please help me? I don't know why I feel this way, but there is only one guy I find attractive anymore, and he doesn't even know I like him... yet. Please help-b90219 Reply to this Question
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reader, b90219 +, writes (9 April 2011):
b90219 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, i dont want to judge all guys and i feel dumb for even thinking i did. and when i said my perverted ex wanted to have sex with me he didnt mean by my choice. thank you all and i will try dating other guys and see how it works out(:
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 April 2011):
 I agree with wideoldman, a lot of guys your age are pretty unpleasant. You're going through a lot of changes, it's normal to be confused about your sexual feelings. You need to date a little, be around a lot of people before you can make the call of whether your lesbian or straight. Don't be in a rush to label yourself.
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (9 April 2011):
Most boys your own age are vomit-inducing so no wonder you're not attracted. But the fact you are interested in one indicates you do have some straight feelings. You're at a point in life where your newly-awakening hormones haven't balanced out yet, and very odd thoughts and feelings are the result. You know how champagne or any fine liquor has to be aged and matured before it's ready, and gold ore has to be refined before it can be used in jewelry? Same with teenagers. Time will sort things out for you. Boring answer but true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): At your age you can't know what you are or will become.
You like who you like and dislike who you dislike.
Just don't judge an entire sex on the actions of one. Should I judge all women to be shallow, bitchy whores because some women don't talk to me?
No.
And your ex is not perverted for wanting to have sex with you. The desire for sex is perfectly natural once hormones start coursing through your body.
Just don't bother giving yourself a label until your judgement is unhampered by hormones and other assorted puberty changes.
Flynn 24
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