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female
age
30-35,
*oveitlongtime
writes:Hey everyone, so I have been friends with this girl now for about a couple of months. I have been over her house a couple of times, and the first time I went over there her father was really cool nothing weird, until I got ready for a party at her house, I looked really cute, heels tight jeans and a shirt, and everything, I caught him staring at me until I got in the car. I am 18 years old so I am not to young. He offered to drive my friend and I to the party because he was going to pick us up later anyways.When I came back from the party he was constantly staring at me and checking me out. My friend randomly said to me, "my dad was talking about you" and I proceeded to say ok? and she goes "he really likes you, I don't know why, but he just does."A week later I slept over her house, and the creeping only got worse, he decided to check out my butt publicly to my face, then felt the need to say goodnight to me even though my door was closed.Tonight I stopped by her house before we went out, and he acted totally shocked when I walked in the kitchen, freaked out, not in a bad way, but the way a guy gets. I was wondering why he was acting like this so I went about my business with my guy friend who was also there with me. He kept staring the whole time in the kitchen, and out of no where he walks up to my guy friend, right next to me, and picks up my friends shirt off him and goes "i thought you were wearing a french terry." my opinion it seemed as if that was a excuse to get right next to me. Everyone left the kitchen but me and him, and he goes you should be cleaning the sink, and I was like yea OK, that's funny, he goes I would never make you do that you know I am only joking right. I know I am not paranoid he is always staring at me his behavior around me is bizarre. What do I want and what do I do about this situation, I cannot tell my friend about this she is extremely emotional and sensitive. Help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, Littlescorpio  +, writes (21 April 2011):
Well if you don't want to tell your friend maybe just try and keep away from him...Make her stay over your house haha.It does sound like he's being a bit pervish...but maybe it's just his nature? Like most old men...I guess all you can do is be cautious, try not to wear anything too revealing around him. Try to avoid being alone with him and as long as he doesn't try anything you should be okay. Be cautious!Goodluck :)
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