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My BF doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage. Should I stay or leave??

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Question - (9 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and he's 19, I'm 18 and he doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage and I don't want him to compromise his morals for me so, what I'm asking is if you guys think I should stay in this or leave?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (9 April 2011):

person12345 agony auntThis is a big decision. If you two have very different beliefs or morals, it will be difficult to stay together. If you don't want to get married until later and he doesn't want to have sex before marriage, you may have to find someone else whose beliefs are more in line with your own.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (9 April 2011):

Anonymous 123 agony auntThat depends entirely on you OP. If you have an otherwise loving,committed relationship and you are ready to abstain from sex for the sake of this guy, then you can decide to stay on. Hopefully you might change your mind about marriage somewhere down the line.

However, if you feel you're missing out on sex and you dont see yourself marrying this guy anyway, then you should leave.

Its entirely your decision. Good luck! :)

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