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Feelings for a taken girl

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Question - (9 April 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *rownEyesGirl writes:

hey, so i don't know what's going on.

there is this girl, she is a lot older than me... she has a boyfriend but i seem to be having feelings for her?

i'm 16, and she's like in her 20's...

but yeah something seems to be developing, but i think she thinks that i hate her because i have this face that automatically gives people evils, but she is still very nice to me.

so what should i do?

because i really do think i like her. but at the same time. i don't know if i do...

help?

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A female reader, BrownEyesGirl United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2011):

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BrownEyesGirl agony auntshe was at my school for a bit, and i guess we just came to know each other a bit. now i'm in sixth form and she's left school and is doing a teaching qualification.

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A female reader, viva11 United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2011):

So how do you know this girl?

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A female reader, BrownEyesGirl United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2011):

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BrownEyesGirl agony aunthey, thank you guys. i think i will just try to be friends with her!

and i do know how old she is, i just didn't want to be so specific.

anyway thank you this is much appreciated :) :) :)

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A female reader, Littlescorpio Australia +, writes (10 April 2011):

Hey there

I know it's tough- especially when someone you have feelings for is taken!

I think your first priority should be is finding out if she likes 'girls' in that way.

If so then just continue to be nice to her-maybe become her friend. Although she already has a boyfriend it doesn't mean that you and her can't be friends. Perhaps one day you're going to be there for her and something will work out between you two.

I can't really say much else- except don't get too hopeful, sometimes things don't work out. And I know the pain of things not working out,haha.

I wish you luck with it all- if you get to know her a little more you might understand your feelings a little more.

Pm me if you want to ask me any Q's :)

I wish you well!

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A female reader, rememberthismoment_ United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2011):

rememberthismoment_ agony auntI think it's just a little crush.

You don't even know how old this girl is properly, so you can't like her as much as you think, as you know nothing about her.

I'd leave it be and don't take this harshly because I mean it in a nice way, but look elsewhere in your own age range :)

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