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writes:I am 21. He is 20.We have been on 3 dates.He plays soccer,for a big team's younger category.I am a university student.I didnt know he was a soccer player when we first talked,and truth is i am a little prejudiced against them,since i went out with one before.I am not just referring to the fact they live a different life etc,but we are in Europe and over here athletes dont go to college (there is no such thing as college championship) so most of them...just play ball. Pretty uneducated.Well this guy impressed me because on our first date we were talking about the Holocaust,and he is a gentleman,so I thought I should give it a try.So yesterday He called me and we talked,we couldnt meet because it was a day before the game,and he told me that his teammate (He has characterized him immature and irresponsible,he's like 18 yrs old) suggested that the night after the match we go out (me,him,his teammate,and his teammate's girlfriend)...but then quickly added "But ur studying all day tommorow right?" I said yes cause i already had told him I got a test Monday and Sunday He has invited me to a game,(plus i am going to a picnic before the game) so I only have time Saturday to study.Today (Saturday) he had a game,and called me,I asked him if they played and how it went,and he was happy because they won.He then proceeded to ask me how my studying is going.I told him that I covered almost half of the material,and later on he said "Playing soccer makes u more tired"...I said "Really? And u base that on..?...and then he was like "give me ur poems and i will study them"...which was pretty immature. I was like uuughh? How can u say that? and then i dont remember what he said but i was like "Ok well I need to continue studying,later" and we hung up.Just now,He called and said "I wanna apologize for what I said,it wasnt a ring thing to say,I dont want us fighting over silly stuff" ...I was like "Do you think studying all day's easy?" He said "of course not,I get physically tired and u get psychologically tired"....I was like "Ok fine. Well I must go back to studying, see it doesn't last for 90 mins only" ...(which was a hint towards a soccer game,which lasts 90 mins.)I guess it's a good thing that he apologized, I begun to write the question before he did,but its pissing me off...should i go to the game with him tommorow? And say what?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 April 2011):
 This is a little late, but in situations like this you should always do what YOU want to. If you want to go, then go. If you don't, then don't. Think about what you want. To me, it sounds like this is more of an annoyance to you. Do you even like him?
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