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*una123
writes:im 28 yrs old..my husband liked me very much before marriage and used to talk a lot about sex on the phone.. he even tried to take me out but i never allowed.. he used to get al excitd on the phone nd use to tell me what hes going to do when ill be finally there.. but when finally we got married hes not doing nething.. in the begining he use to kiss me get over me but no sex nw its been three months and we never had sex nd nw he dont even loves me that much.. means no kissing nd stuff like that .. i dnt think hes impotent as whenevr hes with me he has a very strong erection but no sex he says he cant hurt me and also sometimes he says i dnt knw how to do it ..help plz tell mewht is the problem with him..
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reader, luna123 +, writes (11 June 2011):
luna123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Hugh.J hello.. im in serious trouble when i posted this question here my husband had left me here at mothers place.. its been 2 months hes not coming back.. and is not even talking with me.. he screams the hell out of him if i say him to call me.. later i stopped calling him nut after one month i again started sms ing him.. nd the one thing he writes me back is leave me alone for god sake.. i dont want to talk i want time ..i want space its my right i want to come back to my true self until that u dare not ms/ call me..plz help me i think i will die without him ..
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Luna, I can't begin to understand your frustrations here, but something needs to be done!
When you say you can't take things in to show him, what do you mean? Is it that you don't have anything to show or is it forbidden?
If it's at all possible, I'd like you to get him to join you in Private Messaging me on here and we can have a 3-way discussion at whatever level you like and I'll try to get to the root of the problem for you both, with maybe some advice on techniques and procedures?
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reader, luna123 +, writes (13 April 2011):
luna123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@hugh.J.. thank u for the answer but the problem still exists..we both r virgins.. and being a muslim i cannot take in things to show him how to do it as i also have least knowledge about the problem.. i want to knw why my husband is unable to do it, he likes me he has erection..and above all ive heard men cant control their urge for sex.. he has a wife and all the legal rights thn y he cant????is it some sort of weakness or anything like that ??
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (9 April 2011):
Perhaps he really doesn't know how to do it? If he is a virgin, his knowledge may come from books and/or porn and has no experience of things in reality.You need to help him; try mutual masturbation and then he will at least know that he can get an erection and cum with you, and know what YOU like and how you like it.Experiment.You both have all the time in the world to get it right and will enjoy exploring each others bodies and sexuality.If he is afraid of hurting you, show him by using a dildo that you are capable of accepting objects of penis size in you without pain - indeed, with much pleasure.....
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